SA76D2 - How does understanding take place?

Saanen, Switzerland - 29 July 1976
Public Discussion 2
Text-only version
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As we said yesterday, we are having a dialogue,
which means a conversation between two people,
or with many who are interested, or concerned
with certain problems of human beings
and want to go into them deeply, with care and affection,
not with any form of assertion or argument.
And a dialectical method is investigating through opinions
to find out the truth.
So, we are not dialectically investigating.
We are, as two friends, talking over together their human problems
and hoping to solve them and to discover truth.
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1:45
And I am afraid there is a great deal of misapprehension
that we are trying to find a technique to truth
– a technique, which means learning the method,
practising a method, learning a certain form of technique
that will help you or another to come upon this truth.
We are not advocating, or saying,
that there is any technique to truth.
Please, be very clear on this matter.
Technique implies learning a method.
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I mean, to go to Mars, as they have done,
which is a most extraordinary feat,
you need a great deal of technological knowledge,
a great deal of accumulated knowledge of the ‘know-how’.
But as truth is a pathless land – please, bear this in mind –
it is a pathless land, you can’t lay down a line,
a direction, a path to it and practise it,
discipline yourself, learn a technique.
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3:39
So, please bear in mind that we are not giving
or offering, or telling a technique, a method, a system.
We're already so mechanically minded,
our minds are already sufficiently mechanistic,
and by practising a technique, a verbal repetition,
silence, the whole business of all techniques,
will somehow loosen, or free the mind from all mechanistic activity.
I'm afraid it won’t.
What we are saying is, that you must have the interest,
the drive, the intensity to find out
– find out for yourself, not be told how to do it.
Then what you discover is something yours,
then you will be free from all gurus,
from all techniques, from all authority.
Please, bear that in mind
while we are having a dialogue about these matters.
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5:02
So, what shall we talk about, or have a dialogue this morning?
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5:11
Questioner: Could we talk over understanding?
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5:13
K: Understanding. The nature of understanding.
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5:23
Q: Yesterday, you talked about the possibility of not being hurt.
If people don't want to be hurt it is necessary to be vulnerable.
Can we talk about fear to be open to whatsoever happens?
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5:59
K: We are afraid, the questioner says, to be vulnerable,
to be open, because the more you are vulnerable,
the more likely that you get hurt.
And so we fear to be open.
The word 'vulnerable' means, doesn’t it,
like a leaf in the wind, it is vulnerable to winds.
So, could we discuss that?
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6:36
Q: Could we discuss responsibility in relationship
which prevents the formation of images?
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6:50
K: The responsibility of a human being
with regard to the images he forms about another.
Could we discuss that?
The responsibility.
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7:10
Q: I should like to investigate with you
the relationship of speech to the dialogue,
the relationship of speech to the silent mind.
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7:18
K: The relationship of speech, words,
thought, and silent mind.
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7:35
Q: (Inaudible)
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8:23
K: What is the question, sir? I haven't got it.
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8:35
Q: How to be without motive.
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8:41
K: How can we live without a motive? Is that the question?
Yes.
How can we live without a motive?
Now, that's enough for the time being.
The gentleman wanted to discuss or have a dialogue about understanding.
The relationship between speech, word, thought and silence.
The responsibility of not forming an image in relationship.
Those were the questions that were put.
And to be vulnerable.
Can we live without a motive.
Now, what shall we take out of those questions,
one of those questions so that we can think or observe
or trace it right to the end, not be diverted in other directions,
go to the very end of one question which may include all other questions?
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10:04
Q: Understanding.
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10:06
K: Understanding, right.
I think that's good, too.
I would take that too, myself.
Understanding.
What do we mean by that word 'understanding'?
Please, go slowly into it, not quickly.
To understand something, what is implied in it?
Is it a verbal understanding,
a comprehension through verbal description,
a comprehension through affection
– I like you, I am friends with you, I tell you something,
therefore you understand what I am saying –
or is it an insight into something
which is rather complex and confused?
Or, how does understanding take place?
You understand my question?
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Does understanding take place through verbal communication,
which is description?
Because you and I, if we are speaking English,
then it's something – French, Italian, whatever it is –
through verbal communication and the description
is there an understanding or an insight?
Or does understanding take place not merely through words,
not merely the description,
but going beyond the word,
which means both you and the other are free of the verbal structure
which is the nature of thought,
and penetrating and having an insight?
You understand?
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12:31
When we talk, I understand how the cars run.
That's very simple.
I've observed it, I have undone it,
I have played with it and I know how it works.
I understand how to climb a mountain – I know.
But we are talking of understanding psychologically, aren’t we?
Deeply, not the mere worldly understanding
but much more the understanding which brings about an insight.
An insight means having a sight in something,
which then becomes the truth.
And I can never go back from it.
You understand?
When I understand something,
which means I have an insight into that
and therefore that very insight will wipe away any misunderstanding,
any complexity, you have clear sight in that.
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13:54
Therefore, understanding implies, does it not, a mind, or a brain,
the whole structure of the mind listens not only to the word
but goes beyond the word
and sees the deep meaning of that particular statement,
and then there is an insight and then you say, ‘I understand it’,
‘I have got it’.
So, insight implies a mind that is quiet,
willing to listen, go beyond the word,
and observe the truth of something.
Say, for instance, the speaker makes a statement like...
‘The ending of sorrow is the beginning of wisdom.’
He makes a statement of that kind.
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Now, how do you receive it?
Please, listen to me.
The speaker makes that statement:
‘The ending of sorrow is the beginning of wisdom’.
How do you receive it?
What is your reaction to that statement?
Do you make of it into an idea, an abstraction,
and with that abstraction, which is an idea,
try to understand what he said?
Or you listen,
that is, you listen to the word, the meaning of the word
and go beyond the word
and see the truth of that statement or the falseness of that statement?
Not how to end sorrow, or how to have wisdom,
but whether that statement conveys a truth or a falsehood.
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To observe the truth or the falsehood your mind must be quiet
and then you have an insight into it,
then you say, ‘By Jove, how true that is!
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So, in the same way, understanding implies
having an insight into a problem.
Right?
So that you go beyond all arguments,
all dialectical approaches – it is so.
It is immovable.
Like say, for instance, the speaker says,
‘There is no technique to truth, truth is a pathless land’.
He makes that statement – he has made it fifty years ago.
And how do you receive that statement?
Go on, sir.
How do you receive that statement? This is a dialogue.
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Do you receive it with opinion,
saying no, that can’t be true
because everybody talks about technique, the method, the system,
and this man comes along and says, there is no path,
there is no technique to truth.
So, you say, 'Well, who is right in this,
is this man right or is that man right?
So, are you arguing, comparing, judging
or do you listen to that statement,
not knowing what is right and wrong,
because you don’t know, actually, you don’t know.
Ten people, or a million people have said there is a technique,
and some person comes along and says, there's no technique, whatsoever.
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How do you know? You understand? This man may be totally wrong.
And he explains: a technique implies practice,
time, a mechanistic process.
Our minds are already mechanistic enough
and you are making it more mechanistic.
Right?
So, he explains all that and you still say,
'Well, a thousand people have techniques'.
Do you balance these two and then say,
'I prefer that, rather than that'?
Or you receive what is said with complete objective silence,
quietness, not knowing what is true?
And when you listen quietly, which means complete attention,
then you discover, have an insight into what is being said.
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Then it is yours, not mine. I don’t know if you...
That is, to find out what is true and what is false.
To find out the truth in the false.
Right?
So, your mind must be extraordinarily open, vulnerable
– right?
– otherwise, you don’t know.
I wonder if we are understanding each other.
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21:14
You see, is love an intellectual thing?
Technique is an intellectual thing,
a method is an intellectual affair,
and can you love through a technique?
Right?
Can you?
By practising being very nice, very kind, very gentle,
you know, all the rest of it,
and at the end of a year, after having practised a method,
will you love?
Right?
It's impossible, isn’t it?
So, why do you say, 'No'?
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22:05
Q: We could have mastered technique but still know nothing of love.
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22:13
K: That’s right. Why do you say that?
Now, just a minute, why do you say that?
When I said, will there be love if you practise kindness,
gentleness, non-violence, etc., etc., etc.,
will you have at the end of it love?
Will you have it?
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22:36
Q: No.
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22:37
K: What makes you say, 'No'?
What makes you say, 'No'?
Do listen to it carefully.
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22:47
Q: (Inaudible)
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22:50
K: No, sir. Listen to me.
We said, can love come into being
through any form of intellectual effort as technique?
And you say, 'No'.
What makes you say, 'No'?
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23:16
Q: Because I know.'
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23:18
K: Listen carefully. What makes you say, 'No'?
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23:21
Q: I understand the correctness of this.
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23:24
K: You have an insight that technique is a method,
it's an intellectual affair, and you say,
'How can that produce love?'
You follow?
There is instinctive response.
Now, if someone says – listen carefully –
the observer is the observed,
the observer being the past,
and what he observes is through his past background,
therefore what he sees is seen from the background.
The observer is the observed – he makes the statement.
And you say, ‘I don’t understand that’.
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‘I can’t see it. Please tell me in a different way’.
So the speaker says, 'The thinker is the thought.
If there is no thought, there is no thinker'.
Right?
Right?
And why do you say, 'Right'?
Because you see the obvious thing, don’t you?
And he says, further, 'The experiencer is the experience'.
And he says the experiencer must recognise the experience
otherwise, there would be no experience.
So, recognition implies the past.
So, the past experiences what it wants,
or experiences that which he has projected.
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And you say, 'Yes, quite right'.
So, you instinctively – or rather, when it is put very clearly
you say, 'Perfectly right'.
So, understanding takes place when both of us have a common language,
the words have the same meaning for you as well as for me,
and we are talking about the same thing, with the same interest,
with the same intensity, then there is a direct communication.
Right?
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26:07
Q: Only with words?
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26:13
K: Only with words. We have been through that.
Words are only means for communicating,
but we must go beyond the word.
We've said that ten times.
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26:31
Q: A monkey, whether it is active or quiet, is a monkey.
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26:42
K: A monkey. Oh, yes. There's a very famous story,
I don’t know if you want to be told.
A very famous story of a monkey going to the Buddha,
and the monkey says to the Buddha,
‘I have practised meditation for the last twenty years’ or fifty years,
‘and I can do most extraordinary things.
I can go right round the world in a few seconds.’
And the Buddha is stretching out his hand, the monkey is sitting there,
and he says, ‘Do it’.
The monkey says, ‘I'm going to make a tremendous effort
and go right round the world.’
And the monkey opens his eyes, he says, ‘You're still there’.
You get it?
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27:44
Q: How are these insights any different
to the bricks one uses to build the wall
which one then says, 'I wish to jump over'?
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27:59
K: Right.
One has built a wall around oneself, the questioner says,
and one desires to jump over that wall,
because that wall becomes a prison,
that wall becomes a wall of resistance, which implies isolation,
bitterness, lack of love and all the rest of it.
And so the verbal description makes you want to jump over.
Just a minute.
Right?
The verbal description that you are a prisoner
enclosed by your own desire not to be hurt,
you have built brick by brick, this wall
and the speaker describes the wall, the effects of the wall
– the bitterness, the sorrow, the isolation, the loneliness –
and from that, violence and all that, he describes it,
and you say, ‘I want to get over that wall’.
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Which means you have no insight into what has made you build that wall.
All that you are concerned with is to get over it.
And you will never get over it.
Whereas, if you had an insight into the whole movement of hurt,
resistance, isolation, see the whole picture,
observe the whole picture, then the wall doesn’t exist.
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29:59
Q: That very insight is another brick in that very same wall.
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30:07
K: That's why I want – please, let’s be clear what we are saying.
Having an insight means
complete observation of the whole movement of hurt.
We're taking that as an example.
The understanding of the complete movement of hurt.
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30:31
Q: Why?
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30:33
K: Why? I'll tell you. Let me finish. I will tell you later why.
Do we understand, or observe the whole movement of hurt,
the whole movement, not just building a wall?
Why we are hurt, the image that we have about ourselves,
and that image is 'me', and then I am hurt,
and then I build a wall round myself not to be hurt more
because I see if I am vulnerable I will get hurt more likely,
so I build a wall round myself.
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And by building a wall round myself, I resist
and in resisting I have become more and more enclosed,
more and more isolated, and from that isolation I feel desperate
and I see you who are not desperate,
I'm angry with you, I become bitter.
All the rest of it, follows.
Do I see, is there an observation or an awareness
of this whole movement of hurt?
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31:59
Q: Born out of what?
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32:02
K: One moment. I understand. I understand your question.
First, let me finish with this.
Do you observe, are you aware of this whole movement?
Or you are only partially aware of it,
and therefore you say, ‘How am I to get over it?’
When there is a partial awareness of this movement
then the reaction is, ‘Tell me how to get over it’.
Then the ‘how’ becomes the method.
But when there is a total observation of this whole movement of hurt,
there is no ‘how’, you see it.
There is an insight into it.
You have got it?
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32:59
Now, the question is, the lady asks, why do I bother with it?
Why should I go through all this business of insight, and awareness?
Because human beings are violent,
human beings are bitter,
human beings are enclosed, tight, everything is self-centred,
the more activity the more self-centred it becomes
– in the name of God, in the name of social work, in the name of… etc.,
but the thing becomes tighter and tighter and tighter
and therefore more and more anxiety, greed.
And a man observing this says, ‘Why should I live that way?’
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33:58
Q: The very movement which has made that tightness,
is now the movement saying, 'I know something'.
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34:17
K: Ah, no, no, no, no. There is no…
You have not – forgive me, for repeating –
I'm afraid you haven’t understood.
I said, insight is not a movement.
It is direct perception in which there is no movement.
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34:43
Q: Are you actually saying then that insight...?'
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34:46
K: Have you listened to what I said?
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34:48
Q: Maybe.
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34:49
K: Ah, no, no, no, please.
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34:50
Q: First listen to me and then, perhaps...
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34:57
K: Let her go, please.
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34:59
Q: In that movement, is there one who moves at all?
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35:03
K: I said 'no movement', not 'somebody moves'. You haven't...
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35:09
Q: The movement into insight is no longer there.
Is that what you are saying?
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35:21
K: Please, madam... We are old friends,
we have known each other for many years.
We are saying, insight means non-movement.
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35:48
Q: Where am I, then?
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35:51
K: Nowhere!
No, you are missing my whole point!
Please.
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35:58
Q: Is there then something to which one can even give the word 'insight'?
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36:04
K: No madame, you haven’t understood.
Please, you are not listening.
Forgive me, for saying so,
but you are not listening to what is being said.
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36:15
Q: Just answer. Is there anything there then
to which one could even give the word 'insight'?
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36:25
K: Look, I say something which is very applicable to you and to me,
and words, description, have no meaning,
and you say then, ‘I understand it’.
That understanding is non-movement, isn’t it?
You have understood it.
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36:54
Q: There we part company.
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37:05
K: I'm sorry. Don’t let’s part company,
which is what everybody does when they don’t agree or understand.
Just a minute, please.
Don’t use ‘we part company’, that's the worst...
Madame, just listen to what I have got to say.
I know what you're saying, I have understood what you're saying.
You haven’t understood what I'm saying.
I've understood what you're saying.
I have understood it.
Please, believe me.
Don’t ever say, ‘We part company’.
That’s the first thing to learn.
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That means you and I are opposed to each other.
You and I, or two human beings when they say, ‘We part company’,
it's the worst thing to say.
Please, listen, you are not listening to me,
you're listening to yourself.
Don’t let us ever come to that point when we say,
‘You go north, I go south’,
because what we are trying to do here
is to understand our human problems,
to find out what is true and what is false.
Not my truth or your truth, or your falseness or my falseness,
what is truth, which is non-personal.
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It is not yours or mine, it is truth.
And that's what we are trying to understand.
So, if you and I are concerned with the enquiry into what is truth,
there is no parting.
We may go slower, somebody may go faster,
but we are on the same path, we are in the same direction – no path.
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39:37
So please, that’s the most ugly thing to say to somebody else,
‘We part’, it's like a divorce.
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39:46
Q: Ugly or not, it...
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39:48
K: Leave it alone, leave it alone, leave it alone.
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39:53
Q: Could we discuss the relationship between an insight and knowledge,
or insight and understanding, or insight and the thinking process?
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40:05
K: Insight and knowledge – can we discuss that?
And also, there is lots more to discuss.
As that lady pointed out, the responsibility of image-making,
and living without an image.
And also, about vulnerability
and to live without a motive.
All those questions are involved.
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40:43
We began by asking,
because that was the first question we all agreed to,
which was, what is understanding?
If I am fixed at a certain point
and you are moving away from that point,
there is no understanding between you and me,
because I'm fixed in my opinion, in my belief,
in my experience, in what I think.
And therefore communication between you and me comes to an end.
Because the speaker has no belief, literally has no belief,
no opinion, he is only investigating, penetrating, tracing out.
But if you take a stand, then it's finished, you're not investigating.
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We said investigating into what is truth,
and to enquire into that, we must not only understand the verbal meaning
– English or French or whatever it is, German –
then go beyond the word and you can only go beyond the word
when you understand thought which lives on words.
You understand this?
Which lives, breeds on words,
and to go beyond that is to have real communion,
which then perhaps can bring about an insight.
That's what we said.
An insight into what is false and what is true.
And that requires very alert, capable observation,
not based on prejudice.
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42:56
So, we'll go into another question, which is,
human beings get hurt because they think they're vulnerable,
because they are sensitive, and the question is,
does not vulnerability bring more hurt,
and therefore, don’t be vulnerable, don’t be open,
because then you get more and more hurt.
Right?
That was one of the questions.
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43:33
Now, what brings about hurt?
We said hurt comes into being when there is an image of myself
and that image gets hurt.
That’s fairly simple, right?
I have an image about myself, that I'm a great man, or a silly man,
and whatever image I have about myself that image gets wounded.
That image is 'me', ‘me’ and the image are not different.
Now, as long as I have an image about myself,
and myself is that image,
getting wounded is inevitable.
Right?
Obviously.
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44:29
Q: Because there is resistance.
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44:32
K: That’s right. Because there is resistance,
because I have assumed a position,
I have assumed an image which is very pleasant to me
and when you come and disturb it I get hurt.
So, if there is no image
there is no possibility of getting hurt.
Right?
We went into the question of how to go beyond the image.
We went into it the other day, very carefully.
Now, to have no image is to be completely vulnerable.
Please, listen carefully.
It is only when there is resistance then there is hurt.
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45:29
Q: Is it possible that there is an image which does not resist?
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45:34
K: You can’t. If you have an image it must resist.
That’s natural.
It is like having a wall.
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45:43
Q: But you have a body.
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45:45
K: Wait. You go back to the body.
That is the organism can tolerate so much and no more.
All right.
A body, the organism, the biological thing,
can tolerate fear up to a certain point, beyond that
it can’t hold, it goes to pieces.
So, then you have to make the body healthy
– right food, and right exercise and all the rest of it.
So, what is the question, sir?
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46:20
Q: When the image is gone, I am nothing.
And when I am nothing, nothing can hurt me.
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46:28
K: Not, nothing can hurt 'me'.
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46:33
Q: That's a problem of language.
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46:35
K: I understand, sir.
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46:38
Q: Always there is the potential of an image-maker.
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46:42
K: Only vegetables can live in that state.
I'm not a vegetable.
Please, I have lived for,
this entity has lived for over eighty years.
There have been all kinds of insults, every kind of devotion,
every kind of flattery, every kind of usage of words,
calling the person all kinds of names – ugly names – terrible.
And no image, and therefore never been hurt.
I am not a vegetable.
You may say, ‘Oh, well, that's an illusion you are living in’.
I say, no, I have investigated how illusions come,
which means sensation, plus desire, plus thought, image.
When you have that process there is bound to be illusion.
I have not that.
I have gone into this, thoroughly.
So, I am not a vegetable and other human beings can do this!
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48:00
So, let’s proceed. Where there is image there is hurt.
When there is no image at all, and that is essential,
that is possible, and it is possible only
when you understand the whole movement of building images,
having an insight into the building of the image,
then there is no building image
and then only there is complete vulnerability.
It's only when there is partial vulnerability, then there is hurt.
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48:41
Then to go to the next question, which is,
what is our responsibility to another in this image-making?
Right?
After finishing this we'll go to the next question,
can one live without a motive in life?
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49:06
What is responsibility?
What is one’s human responsibility with regard to another,
when both of them are building images about themselves?
You understand?
You are building an image, and I am building an image,
and our relationship is based on those images.
Right?
If you have observed yourself for two seconds this is an obvious fact.
I live with a human being and with that human being,
out of our living, I begin to build up an image
– hurt, irritation, pleasant companionship, words – you follow?
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I gradually, through years I have established a strong image,
as the other person has established a strong image about me.
So, the relationship is between these two images.
Whether you like it or not, it's a fact.
Then, if one of them is free of all image-making,
literally all image-making, what is his responsibility towards the other?
That's the question as far as I understood it.
That’s right?
Is that right?
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50:53
Q: One is not free, actually, totally, of images.
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50:57
K: Yes, one is not actually completely free of image-making.
So we have to be concerned with that, not the responsibility.
We have to be concerned why we build images.
It is fairly simple.
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51:20
Q: Because we have fear.
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51:23
K: No, no don’t introduce… Why do you have an image about yourself?
You have images about yourself, haven’t you?
Don’t be shy, it's simple.
You have an image about yourself, how does it come into being?
Q : (inaudible)
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51:59
K: No, sir. You have an image about yourself – not you, sir,
I'm not personally asking you – you have an image about yourself,
why do you have it, and how does it come into being?
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Q: By thought.
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K: No, look at it simply.
From childhood you are told you're not as good as your brother,
that you are not as clever as your elder brother,
so you begin slowly to build the image.
Your friends help you, and you help your friends to build this image.
Society helps you, your parents help you.
So gradually school, university, college,
you build this tremendous image about yourself,
that you are clever or not clever, that you are this or that,
so you have an image.
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And one very rarely is aware of this.
Right?
One is not aware of this image.
That image is 'me', and one is not aware of it.
Now, to become aware of it is the first thing.
Can you become aware of it?
Not say, ‘I don’t like it or like it',
be aware of the image that you have about yourself?
Can you?
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Q: When I am hurt, yes.
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K: Now, now. Not when you are hurt.
Now, I am asking.
You have an image, sir,
don’t let’s beat round the bush.
It is so simple.
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Q: (Inaudible)
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K: Madame, we are not talking of love.
Look, be simple.
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So, to become aware of that image.
Then are you aware of it as though it were different from the observer?
Please answer this question, simply.
Are you aware of that image as something different
from you who are looking at it?
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Q: The image is the observer.
Is the observer different from the image?
Naturally, not.
So, the observer is the image.
Right?
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Q: But if you see this, the image vanishes.
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K: Not ‘if’.
Do you see or have an insight
that the 'you' is not different from the image?
When you have an insight, you then say, ‘I am the image’.
Obviously.
Now, careful. Just go slowly from here.
You are the observer and you discover for yourself that the image,
the observer is the observed, the observer is the image.
Then what takes place?
Don’t guess.
Don’t say, ‘Yes, if that happens this'll happen’.
That has no meaning.
What takes place when the observer realises
what he is observing is himself?
So the observer is the observed.
That is, having an insight into that, then what happens?
Go slowly, sir, don’t... No, there is something… Go slowly.
What takes place?
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Q: Attention. Complete attention.
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K: You are not watching it.
You are too complicated, keep it simple, sir.
When it is very simple, you make it very complicated.
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Q: You have lost distinction.
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K: You are lost. You’ve lost the…?
You’ve lost the… something or the other.
Now, wait a minute.
Look at it, sir. Please, look at it.
This is really most important.
Once you have this key, the real thing that you have,
then you will find out so much.
When the observer is the observed,
the experiencer is the experience, the thinker is the thought,
what has taken place?
What has actually taken place?
The division between the two has come to an end.
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Right?
Before, we had this division,
the observer said, ‘I'm different from the observed’.
So, in that division there was conflict.
The observer then says, ‘I must do something about the observed.
I must control it, I must suppress it, I must run away from it’.
So, when the observer sees he is the observed,
conflict comes to an end.
When the Arab realises he is the Israeli, the war is over.
You understand?
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So, when the observer realises he's the observed then the conflict,
the division, the struggle, all that has come to an end
because he can’t do anything else, he is that!
Right?
You have understood?
He's that, therefore conflict has completely come to an end.
When a Hindu realises he's the Muslim,
the Muslim may have different customs, but essentially he is himself,
then he says, ‘For God’s sake, don’t let’s fight,
don’t let’s be silly’.
So, conflict comes to an end.
Is that a fact with you?
Or you are accepting my fact?
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So, if it is a fact to you then you have come to a way of living
in which there is no conflict whatsoever,
which means no opposite.
You understand?
You understand this?
No opposite. That is, opposing desire,
wanting to do this and not wanting to do that,
which is in opposition to each other.
When you realise desire has different objects but is still desire
then the opposition goes.
You’re following all this?
There's only desire.
Then what is desire?
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Then you go into it and see desire can come into being
only when there is sensation, plus thought, and desire.
From that arises the image.
I wonder if you follow all this.
Sensations, thought, desire, then the image-making.
I see that car, observe it, sensation, then thought says,
‘How nice, if I could drive it’ – desire, and the image,
which is me sitting in the car and having fun.
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So, as long as there is image-making, there must be hurt.
When there is no image-making
there is no possibility of being hurt at all.
And to have an insight into that frees you from image-making.
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And the next question is, which the lady didn’t put,
which I am going to put:
what is the relationship between two people
when one has really no image and the other has image.
What is then the relationship between the two?
It can happen.
You understand? It does happen.
You may be married and your wife may be free of image-making
– my God, that would be marvellous!
And she would call it marvellous if you had no image.
So, what is her relationship to you – she, who has no image,
and you have an image?
Come on.
It's your responsibility, not mine.
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Q: We can’t answer, we have images.
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K: You can’t answer. Quite right.
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Q: She could love me.
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K: Ah, you don’t know.
You see, you've already formed an image.
If you have no image, what is your responsibility to the world,
to another, and what takes place
when there is no image in this relationship of human beings?
You don’t know.
Right? That is the truth. You don’t know.
Any formation is just an image-making.
You don’t know.
Remain with that fact that you don’t know,
which is an extraordinary discovery.
You understand, sir?
We always have an answer, but to say to oneself,
‘I really don’t know what would happen if there was no image-making,
but I'm going to find out’.
You follow?
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Look, when you start with certainty you end up in doubt.
When you start without any certainty you end up completely certain.
You understand?
So, you don’t know.
From there move, find out, whether you can be free of image
and what is implied, and the responsibility to others.
You follow?
It's a marvellous thing that's growing, flowering.
You discover it.
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And the next question is, can one live without a motive?
That is, we said, where there is a motive there is a direction.
The direction set by thought.
Right?
I have a motive of wanting to get rich.
Thank God, I haven’t got it, but suppose I have it.
I have a motive,
therefore all my life is directed towards that particular thing
– getting money.
Because then I can have fun, I can travel,
I can have a house – you follow?
– all the rest of it.
We are traditionally trained, brainwashed to have direction
– heaven, Jesus, Buddha, whatever direction,
economically, socially, religiously – we are trained to have directions.
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And so we don’t know how to live without a motive.
Then we ask, is it possible to live without a motive?
Right?
Not knowing, we can find out.
I don’t start by saying, ‘I mustn’t have a motive’.
That’s silly, when I have got it.
But to say, ‘Well, I have got a motive’,
I see what is implied in a motive, a movement in a certain direction,
pleasant or unpleasant, profitable or not profitable,
worthwhile, not worthwhile and so on.
The direction is set by thought,
which is desire, image, sensation and particular direction.
That is the motive operation.
And we are trained traditionally, educationally, socially,
in every way, even religiously – you follow?
–
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you have directions.
Having directions, motives,
then you can find out why thought sets a direction.
You understand my question?
Are you following this?
Why thought sets a direction in life.
Direction means non-comprehension of the whole.
Right?
It's like looking at a map.
Please, give me five minutes, don’t get tired.
If you are tired then go to sleep and don’t listen,
but keep awake for five minutes, at least.
What is the time, madame?
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Q: Twenty to twelve.
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K: We will finish with this.
Why do we have direction in life?
Because, one of the reasons is, it gives security,
at least, thought assumes it'll give security.
Right?
If I have no motive I don’t know what to do.
Good Lord, I would be lost.
So, the fear of getting lost, fear of not being secure,
both financially, psychologically and physically,
thought says, ‘I must have a direction in life’.
So, it sets a direction, which means
pushing away all other things,
like one of those athletes if you saw in the Olympic Games,
he is completely in one direction, diving, running, whatever it is,
completely absorbed, trained, concentrated.
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And the rest of life is, you know – politics, religion,
everything is a side issue.
There he is completely secure.
So, thought sets a direction
in order to be both biologically and psychologically secure.
That is a fact.
Right?
So it discards the whole map of life.
It only sees one direction
which is towards that particular village and the rest is denied.
So when you have a direction, which is traditional,
accepted as normal, then there is division
between the one who has a direction going north
and the other fellow going south, or south east, south west,
you know, break it all up into fragments.
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The moment you have a direction
you are breaking up life into fragments.
I've just seen it, now.
I have got an insight into it.
No, see it for yourself.
The moment you have a direction
you have broken up life into fragments.
So your life has become a fragment because you have a direction.
Got it?
You see it? So.
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Then the question is, can I live without direction?
You understand?
I see the whole of the map
and the map says there is no motive, no direction.
Now, just a minute.
I will go slowly into this.
I said when there is direction there is the fragmentation
of life, of living.
That is clear.
Fragmentation implies conflict
– you in that direction, I in another direction,
she another direction, so we are all breaking up
and therefore there is no co-operation
– except for profit and all the rest of it –
so there is always conflict when there is fragmentation.
Right?
Can we go on?
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And the mind says, ‘Is it possible
to live without fragmentation, without direction?’
It can only say that when it has seen, or has had an insight
into the fragmentary way it is living because it has got a direction.
You've understood what I am saying?
If I see, observe, am aware
that having a direction implies fragmentation,
where there is fragmentation there must be conflict
– Arab, Jew, Hindu, Muslim, Catholic, Protestant,
the whole business of living.
Where there is a direction there is fragmentation,
and therefore division and therefore conflict.
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Do you have an insight into this reality?
It is a reality.
Right?
It is an actual, factual, daily reality:
where I have a direction – I want to be the Prime Minister
and you, so on, so there is conflict between you and me.
Where there is division there must be conflict, that is a law.
Have an insight into that.
Then only I can say, ‘Can I live without motive?’
Not before, because it has no meaning.
So I don’t know.
You understand?
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I don’t say, 'I can’ or cannot, I don’t know.
But I do know where I have a direction there is fragmentation,
conflict and all the rest of it follows.
So that, I am fully acquainted with,
I am familiar with it, everyday of my life.
From that I ask myself – because I have an insight into that –
I ask myself, 'Is it possible to live without a motive?'
I really don’t know.
I do know the other but I don’t know this.
So, I'm going to enquire.
I am going to watch.
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I am watching, there is an observation in my action,
in my speech, whether I have a motive.
And I say ‘Yes, I have got a motive there.
Why?’
I begin to bulldoze it, bring it all out.
So, at the end I can say, ‘I have no motive’.
You know what that means?
No conflict, no fragmentation,
a life which is whole, healthy, sane and holy.
Then only you can say this, but to say it before means nothing.
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Q: What is the ‘I’ that says, 'I have no motive'?
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K: I said there is no motive, I say I have no motive.
Sir, that’s a façon de parler.
Quickly say it, actually what it means,
there is no motive for living.
You know what that means?
Then that means real compassion, you understand?
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