SA77T4 - Does compassion flower in the field of desire?
Saanen - 17 July 1977
Public Talk 4
0:22  | Krishnamurti: If we may, we'll go on |
with what we were talking about | |
0:26  | the other day we met here. |
0:32  | Some of you |
may not have been here | |
0:39  | and so I'll go over it |
very briefly. | |
0:49  | First of all, |
I would like to point out | |
0:56  | that we are |
a gathering of serious people | |
1:03  | – at least I hope so. |
1:11  | Not a gathering |
for intellectuals, | |
1:17  | or romantics, |
or sentimentalists | |
1:21  | because we are |
dealing with facts, | |
1:25  | the facts of daily life, |
1:31  | the way of living. |
1:36  | And, |
if one is not at all serious, | |
1:43  | one doesn't see the point |
of coming here, | |
1:46  | taking all the trouble |
1:49  | and sitting down here |
for an hour. | |
1:56  | And I hope that |
2:01  | all of us who are here |
are really quite serious, | |
2:12  | because we are concerned |
with our daily living, | |
2:17  | which are daily facts. |
2:23  | Most of us make those facts |
into an abstraction, | |
2:32  | to abstract, from the fact, |
an idea, | |
2:37  | a conclusion, |
2:41  | and become prisoners |
to those ideas and conclusions. | |
2:47  | We may ventilate those prisons |
2:50  | but still we live, most of us, |
2:54  | because we make |
abstractions of facts, in prison. | |
3:02  | Please, therefore, |
3:06  | be good enough to understand |
that we are not dealing with ideas, | |
3:14  | some exotic philosophy, |
3:22  | or dealing |
with abstractive conclusions. | |
3:29  | We are here, |
if I may again point out, | |
3:32  | as I've been doing for the last |
three or four gatherings here, | |
3:39  | that we are sharing |
this thing together. | |
3:46  | We are going into problems |
that require a great deal of care, | |
3:53  | a great deal of attention. |
3:56  | One must be very, very serious |
3:59  | because the house is burning. |
4:03  | I do not know |
if you are aware of all this. | |
4:06  | There is the Communist world |
pressing all the time, | |
4:14  | make us believe |
in certain ideologies | |
4:19  | and if we don't, we are |
either sent to a concentration camp | |
4:23  | or mental hospitals, and so on. |
4:26  | That is gradually closing in. |
4:30  | One may not be aware of it now, |
4:35  | but if you are aware |
of the world situation, | |
4:39  | what is happening in the world |
4:41  | economically, |
socially, politically, | |
4:44  | and in preparation for wars, |
4:49  | one has to become |
terribly serious. | |
4:58  | It isn't a thing |
you play around with, | |
5:02  | one has to act. |
5:06  | And as we were saying, |
action based on skill, | |
5:13  | which we discussed |
last Thursday, | |
5:21  | action based on skill |
5:24  | must inevitably lead to |
separative, fragmentary action. | |
5:35  | Please follow it. |
5:38  | I'll go into it again |
as we did last Thursday. | |
5:44  | Because our education, |
5:47  | our environment, |
sociological demands, | |
5:53  | urge everyone |
to develop a particular skill. | |
6:03  | That skill brings about |
6:07  | not only a sense of power, |
position, | |
6:12  | but also such action |
born of that skill is very limiting, | |
6:20  | emphasises |
the importance of oneself. | |
6:25  | One builds |
the structure of oneself, | |
6:29  | the I, the ego. |
6:33  | And without clarity, |
6:38  | skill becomes destructive. |
6:45  | Clarity, we mean by that, |
6:48  | the clarity that comes |
when there is the art of listening, | |
6:56  | the art of seeing, |
6:59  | the art of learning. |
7:03  | And we mean by that word art, |
7:06  | to put everything |
in its right place, | |
7:10  | where it belongs. |
7:15  | Then out of that action, |
7:21  | which is to give everything |
its proper place, | |
7:27  | out of that comes clarity. |
7:34  | Clarity is not born of logic, |
7:40  | reason, |
7:44  | or objective thinking. |
7:47  | But clarity one must have, |
7:50  | to act clearly, |
wholly, completely. | |
7:59  | One must understand |
the meaning of listening, | |
8:03  | the meaning of seeing |
8:06  | and the art of learning. |
8:11  | We said the art of listening |
8:17  | means that you listen |
not to your own prejudices, | |
8:23  | not to your own conclusions, |
to your own experiences, | |
8:27  | with which |
you are quite familiar. | |
8:31  | And with those prejudices, |
conditions, you listen, | |
8:36  | then you don't listen at all. |
8:41  | Then you are merely judging |
8:44  | what is being said |
with what you already know, | |
8:47  | therefore there is |
no actual communication or clarity. | |
8:54  | And the art of seeing, |
8:58  | to look without any direction, |
9:04  | without any motive, |
9:08  | to look at the world, |
9:11  | to look at |
what is happening around you, | |
9:14  | politically, religiously, |
9:17  | and all the things |
that the gurus | |
9:19  | unfortunately |
are bringing over to Europe, | |
9:23  | to see all that, clearly, |
9:28  | without any personal demand, |
9:34  | without any |
personal prejudice or want. | |
9:38  | That again needs |
a great deal of attention, | |
9:42  | one has to have. |
9:44  | And also to learn. |
9:49  | And I think |
this is very important to understand. | |
9:53  | To learn implies, |
9:57  | as most of us know, |
10:03  | knowledge, facts, information, |
10:07  | and that information, knowledge, |
experience, is stored in the brain | |
10:14  | and according to that knowledge |
10:17  | you act |
skilfully, or not skilfully. | |
10:29  | But when thought |
10:32  | – which is the result of accumulated |
knowledge, experience and memory, | |
10:38  | and therefore reaction |
to that memory, which is thought - | |
10:43  | when thought spills over, |
as it were, | |
10:46  | into the psychological field |
10:49  | then it creates havoc, |
10:56  | which we talked about |
sufficiently the other day. | |
11:01  | So if you don't mind |
we will not go into that again, | |
11:05  | because we have a lot of things |
to talk about still. | |
11:12  | The art of listening, |
11:16  | the art of seeing |
11:20  | what is happening around you, |
11:23  | what is happening inside you, |
11:25  | what is taking place |
in your relationship | |
11:30  | with another, man, woman, |
11:32  | to see it very clearly. |
11:39  | Then the art of learning |
11:40  | brings about |
an extraordinary quality of clarity. | |
11:49  | If you have done it, |
as you are sitting there, | |
11:51  | if you do it actually, |
not theoretically, | |
11:56  | follow it |
step by step and do it, | |
11:59  | then you will have |
an extraordinary clarity | |
12:04  | from which action takes place. |
12:07  | And in that clarity, |
there comes naturally the skill. | |
12:14  | But what we are doing now |
is to develop skill without clarity | |
12:23  | and therefore |
whatever we do in the world, | |
12:27  | in our daily lives, |
12:29  | leads to constant conflict, |
misery, confusion. | |
12:33  | That again is very obvious. |
12:36  | And we were saying |
that without compassion, | |
12:42  | clarity in itself |
has very little meaning. | |
12:47  | So we are going to |
go into this question this morning | |
12:54  | of what is the meaning |
and the significance of compassion. | |
13:03  | Before we go into that |
13:09  | it becomes important |
to understand | |
13:13  | that we are |
dealing with daily life | |
13:18  | and nothing else, |
13:21  | because that is |
the basis of all relationship | |
13:25  | and therefore all life. |
13:36  | Most of us are mediocre. |
13:41  | The word mediocre means, |
13:45  | the root meaning of that word, |
13:49  | is to go half way up the hill. |
14:01  | We all do that, |
we just go half way up, | |
14:05  | and that is mediocrity. |
14:08  | Excellence means |
going to the very top of it. | |
14:17  | So we are asking |
for excellence, | |
14:21  | not mediocrity, |
mediocre action. | |
14:26  | Is that clear? |
14:30  | To go all the way, |
not go half way, | |
14:36  | otherwise we are |
going to be smothered, | |
14:40  | destroyed as human beings |
14:45  | by the politicians, |
by the ideologists, | |
14:48  | whether they are Communists, |
Socialists and so on, | |
14:53  | or Eurocommunists. |
15:00  | So we are demanding of ourselves |
the highest form of excellence. | |
15:10  | And that excellence |
can only come into being | |
15:14  | when there is compassion, |
15:18  | clarity, |
15:21  | and from this |
compassion and clarity comes skill | |
15:25  | – not the other way around. |
15:30  | And that's what |
we are trying to do, | |
15:32  | to develop skill |
and have clarity and then compassion. | |
15:39  | We are saying |
quite the contrary. | |
15:44  | So we are going into this question |
of what is compassion. | |
15:50  | What is the structure and the nature |
of this extraordinary quality, | |
15:56  | which if the human mind |
doesn't have, | |
16:00  | it is going to |
destroy the world, | |
16:04  | and therefore |
destroy human beings. | |
16:09  | We also said in our talks |
that each human being, | |
16:15  | you as a human being |
16:18  | are the representative |
of the whole of humanity. | |
16:24  | Which is not an idea |
or an abstraction, | |
16:28  | but an actual daily fact. |
16:32  | That is, wherever you go, |
16:35  | India, Asia, America |
or Europe, | |
16:39  | or even Russia and China, |
16:45  | human beings |
are going through anxiety, | |
16:52  | fear, uncertainty, |
16:55  | great sense of loneliness, |
insecurity, | |
17:02  | they are caught |
in the stream of sorrow. | |
17:05  | This is a fact |
right through the world. | |
17:10  | So every human being, |
17:14  | that is you who are here |
in this gathering, | |
17:18  | and outside, |
17:20  | are actually |
the entire essence of all humanity. | |
17:27  | That is a fact, you must not only |
realise it intellectually but... | |
17:47  | ...realise this fact |
not only intellectually | |
17:50  | but with all your being, |
17:53  | in your blood, in your guts, |
17:58  | which is an absolute fact. |
18:02  | So it becomes very important |
18:07  | for each human being |
to realise this, | |
18:11  | that he is responsible. |
18:16  | When you feel utterly responsible |
then you care, | |
18:23  | then you care what kind of |
education your children have, | |
18:27  | what kind of literature, |
18:30  | everything you care. |
18:35  | So we are going to go |
into this question of compassion. | |
18:51  | As we said |
18:56  | we are examining |
the thing together. | |
19:01  | We are reasoning over it |
together. | |
19:05  | We are exercising |
our highest excellent logic. | |
19:13  | But reason, |
19:17  | clear, objective thinking, |
19:21  | and excellent logic |
19:25  | does not bring about compassion. |
19:28  | But we must exercise |
the qualities that we have, | |
19:33  | which is reason, |
19:38  | careful observation, |
19:41  | and from that, |
excellency of clear sight. | |
19:50  | We are taking the journey |
together | |
19:54  | and please, see |
the importance of this. | |
19:58  | If you merely listen |
and accept or reject | |
20:03  | then we are not communicating |
with each other. | |
20:09  | The speaker wants to |
discuss it over with you, go into it, | |
20:13  | because he feels |
it's tremendously urgent, this matter. | |
20:25  | As we are sharing together |
this question: | |
20:32  | 'what is |
the implication of compassion' | |
20:38  | then it becomes |
your responsibility | |
20:48  | to think clearly, |
20:51  | not with |
your personal prejudices, | |
20:54  | not with your |
particular form of experience, | |
20:58  | or certain conclusions that |
you have derived through experience | |
21:04  | or by learning, |
reading and so on. | |
21:08  | Then those conclusions, |
experience | |
21:11  | will prevent you from |
sharing together with another. | |
21:17  | I think that's very clear. |
21:23  | So we are going together |
to explore, | |
21:29  | to investigate, |
21:32  | not intellectually |
but factually, | |
21:37  | in our daily life, |
21:41  | whatever that life be: |
21:42  | ugly, sometimes happy, |
21:45  | sometimes very depressing |
and so on, | |
21:52  | whatever it is we are going to |
go together and examine all this. | |
21:59  | So please, give your care, |
22:04  | your attention, |
22:05  | be serious, for God's sake, |
22:08  | for your own sake. |
22:13  | The future |
is what you make of it today. | |
22:20  | If you are negligent, |
22:23  | if you are |
merely superficially living, | |
22:28  | then you are |
creating a world for the future | |
22:32  | which will be most destructive. |
22:37  | I do not know if you know |
what is happening in the world, | |
22:43  | how the technology |
has so far advanced, | |
22:47  | military and all the rest of |
the horror that is going on, | |
22:53  | and if you realise it |
you have got to do something. | |
23:00  | So let's proceed |
23:03  | to find out |
23:05  | – not from the speaker |
23:11  | because I am not your guru, |
23:16  | we are not asking |
for anyone to follow | |
23:22  | because the follower |
destroys truth. | |
23:30  | There is no guru, |
there is no follower, | |
23:33  | there is no authority here, |
of any kind. | |
23:42  | So we are together |
as two human beings, | |
23:47  | deeply concerned, |
23:51  | not only with our lives |
but the lives of humanity, | |
23:57  | to bring about |
23:59  | a radical psychological transformation |
in our consciousness. | |
24:08  | Content makes consciousness |
24:10  | – content: what it is – |
24:13  | what is inside that consciousness |
makes consciousness. | |
24:19  | Sorry if I am rather emphatic |
about all this. | |
24:26  | I am not being dogmatic. |
24:28  | If you look at it, go into it, |
you will find it out for yourself. | |
24:33  | So we are concerned |
with the transformation | |
24:37  | of the content |
of our human consciousness. | |
24:46  | The human content is |
24:50  | all the things |
that thought has put into it, | |
24:58  | like politics, |
the division in politics, | |
25:01  | my country and your country, |
25:04  | the ideologies, |
25:07  | the Communist ideologies |
25:11  | according to Marx and Lenin, |
25:14  | or Eurocommunism with |
their particular brand of Communism. | |
25:19  | The content is all the |
religious dogmas, rituals, beliefs, | |
25:30  | the demand that you obey |
25:35  | because the priests, |
or the popes, | |
25:37  | or the representatives, |
25:39  | they think they are |
the representative of God or Christ. | |
25:48  | The content is fear, |
pleasure, pain, | |
25:53  | anxiety, loneliness, despair |
25:59  | and the enormous sense |
of great sorrow, | |
26:06  | and the fear of death. |
26:08  | All that is the content, |
of every human being in the world, | |
26:13  | whether they live in China, |
Asia, India, America or here. | |
26:21  | And when there is |
a transformation in consciousness | |
26:28  | it affects the whole of mankind. |
26:33  | If you have |
gone through it you will find out. | |
26:35  | Do it and you will find out. |
26:38  | So we are going to examine |
together | |
26:47  | the various contents |
of consciousness, | |
26:53  | in which compassion |
doesn't exist. | |
27:01  | There is pity in it, |
there is sympathy, | |
27:03  | there is tolerance, |
27:06  | there is the desire to help, |
27:13  | there is |
a peculiar form of love, | |
27:18  | but all that is not compassion. |
27:25  | So we are going to examine |
this thing. | |
27:28  | Please understand, |
27:32  | though the speaker |
is sitting on a platform | |
27:37  | it doesn't give him |
any authority whatsoever. | |
27:44  | He is sitting there |
for convenience | |
27:47  | so that you can see the man |
who is speaking, that's all. | |
27:55  | Because we have accepted |
for so long the feeling of obedience, | |
28:06  | 'Tell us what to do |
and we will do it', | |
28:12  | that's not what we are saying. |
28:17  | When there is understanding |
of what compassion is, | |
28:25  | out of that |
comes your own clarity and action, | |
28:29  | then you are outside of all |
the misery and the confusion, | |
28:34  | and therefore |
you can bring about | |
28:36  | a different consciousness |
in the world. | |
28:40  | Now let's proceed. |
28:48  | There's another train coming. |
29:10  | We're asking whether compassion |
29:15  | – or love – |
is pleasure. | |
29:24  | So we are going to |
investigate together, | |
29:29  | – please bear in mind, together – |
29:34  | what is the significance |
and the meaning of pleasure, | |
29:39  | which every human being |
is seeking, | |
29:45  | which every human being |
is pursuing at any cost. | |
29:56  | What is pleasure? |
30:02  | The pleasure |
derived from possession, | |
30:08  | the pleasure derived |
from capacity, talent, | |
30:16  | the pleasure |
when you can dominate another, | |
30:23  | the pleasure |
30:28  | of having tremendous power, |
30:30  | politically, |
religiously, or economically. | |
30:36  | Then there is the pleasure |
of sex, | |
30:41  | the pleasure that money gives |
30:43  | so that you have |
a great sense of freedom. | |
30:50  | They're are all |
multiple forms of pleasure. | |
30:56  | And if you observe very carefully, |
look at yourself | |
31:01  | as though you are |
looking at yourself in a mirror, | |
31:06  | you will see that you are pursuing |
the same – pleasure. | |
31:13  | It may not be money, |
it may not be many possessions, | |
31:17  | but it may be through sex, |
31:25  | or clinging to |
a particular form of experience, | |
31:30  | which has given you |
great delight, | |
31:33  | holding on to that, |
31:40  | or a particular conclusion, |
31:44  | an ideological conclusion |
31:47  | that gives you |
a sense of great superiority, | |
31:52  | which is a form of pleasure. |
31:56  | So, what actually |
is the meaning of pleasure? | |
32:03  | The word, |
32:08  | not the pleasure |
derived from something, | |
32:15  | but the essence of pleasure. |
32:19  | Because we discussed the other day |
when we met, the nature of fear, | |
32:26  | and whether human beings, |
32:28  | you as a human being |
representing all humanity, | |
32:32  | can be free completely, |
totally of fear. | |
32:38  | We went into that very carefully |
32:41  | and I do not think |
we'll go into it again today | |
32:44  | because we won't have time. |
32:47  | So we're asking: |
32:52  | what is the nature |
and the structure of pleasure, | |
32:58  | which every human being |
is seeking. | |
33:11  | In pleasure |
there are several things: | |
33:17  | there is enjoyment, |
33:24  | there is a sense of joy, |
33:29  | pleasure, enjoyment, joy, |
33:34  | and further on, ecstasy. |
33:39  | In the field of pleasure |
these are involved: | |
33:44  | pleasure, joy, |
33:50  | taking delight in something, |
33:53  | and the sense of ecstasy. |
33:59  | The meaning of the word |
ecstasy, | |
34:02  | – please |
understand what it means – | |
34:04  | the root meaning is |
to be beyond yourself. | |
34:13  | There is no self to enjoy. |
34:22  | The self, that is the me, |
the ego, the personality, | |
34:26  | has all totally disappeared, |
34:28  | there is only |
that sense of being outside. | |
34:33  | That is ecstasy. |
34:37  | But that ecstasy has nothing |
whatsoever to do with pleasure. | |
34:43  | So we're going to look |
carefully at pleasure, | |
34:50  | the meaning of it, |
in which is included joy, | |
34:55  | taking a delight in something |
35:00  | and so on. |
35:04  | I hope |
you want to go into this. | |
35:09  | And you may not |
want to go into it | |
35:12  | because you may be frightened, |
35:14  | because you say, for God's sake, |
35:16  | if you take away pleasure |
what have we in life? | |
35:22  | We are not |
taking away pleasure. | |
35:25  | We're not saying it's ugly, |
wrong, anything of that. | |
35:29  | We are examining it. |
35:31  | But if you say, don't examine it |
too closely because I'm frightened, | |
35:36  | then please don't examine. |
35:40  | But if you want to understand it, |
35:42  | see the significance of it, |
go into it very deeply, | |
35:52  | then there must be |
no blockage by your fear. | |
36:02  | We said: what is pleasure? |
36:06  | You take a delight in something. |
36:14  | The delight that comes naturally |
36:16  | when you look at something |
very beautiful. | |
36:22  | At that moment, at that second, |
36:27  | there is neither pleasure, |
nor joy, | |
36:29  | there is only |
that sense of great observation. | |
36:35  | And in that observation |
the self is not. | |
36:40  | When you look at those mountains |
with their snow caps, | |
36:44  | with their valleys, |
36:47  | the grandeur, the magnificence, |
the extraordinary line of it | |
36:52  | drives away all thought. |
36:55  | There it is, |
that great thing in front of you. | |
37:00  | That's a delight. |
37:03  | Then thought comes along and says, |
what a marvellous thing that was, | |
37:10  | what a lovely experience |
that was, | |
37:14  | then the memory |
of that perception is cultivated, | |
37:23  | then that cultivation |
becomes pleasure. | |
37:27  | So where thought interferes |
with the sense of beauty, | |
37:33  | the sense of greatness, |
grandeur, of anything, | |
37:39  | a piece of poetry, |
a sheet of water, | |
37:43  | or a marvellous tree |
in a lonely field, | |
37:51  | seeing it |
and not registering it. | |
37:58  | Please understand, |
this is important. | |
38:03  | The moment you register it, |
the beauty of it, | |
38:09  | then that very registration |
sets thought into action. | |
38:14  | Then the seeing of that beauty |
38:18  | and the desire to pursue that beauty |
becomes pleasure. | |
38:31  | Are we moving together |
somewhere? | |
38:37  | One sees a beautiful woman, |
or a man, | |
38:45  | and instantly |
it is registered in the brain. | |
38:54  | It is a fact, isn't it? |
38:57  | Then that very registration |
sets thought into motion | |
39:05  | and you want to be in her company, |
all the rest of it follows. | |
39:15  | So pleasure is the continuation |
39:19  | and the cultivation |
of an incident by thought, | |
39:25  | which gives a continuity. |
39:29  | You have had sexual experience |
last night or two weeks ago, | |
39:35  | you remember it |
and the repetition of it, | |
39:38  | which is |
the demand for pleasure. | |
39:42  | This is fairly obvious. |
39:46  | So the point here is: |
39:49  | is it possible |
not to register? | |
39:57  | You understand? |
40:01  | The function of the brain |
is to register | |
40:06  | because in registration |
it is secure, | |
40:12  | it knows what to do. |
40:19  | And in registration, |
knowing what to do, | |
40:24  | in which there is security, |
40:27  | there is |
the development of skill. | |
40:34  | Then that skill becomes |
a great pleasure | |
40:39  | which is a talent, a gift, |
40:44  | all that is the movement |
of the continuation of thought | |
40:49  | through desire and pleasure. |
40:51  | You understand this? |
40:54  | Can we go on from there? |
40:56  | Please, I can go on. |
40:59  | The speaker can go on. |
41:01  | But are you going along |
with the speaker, doing it actually, | |
41:09  | seeing for yourself what is going on |
and realise the whole explanation, | |
41:15  | the discovery, |
the exploration of it. | |
41:22  | Right? |
41:28  | So is it possible to register |
41:34  | only that which is |
absolutely necessary, | |
41:38  | and not register anything else? |
41:45  | Take a very simple thing: |
41:48  | most of us have had pain, |
41:51  | physical pain |
of some sort or another. | |
41:57  | And that pain is registered |
42:02  | because my brain says, |
42:04  | I must be very careful |
not to have that pain again tomorrow, | |
42:09  | or a week later, |
because physical pain is distorting. | |
42:17  | You can't think clearly |
when there is great pain. | |
42:22  | So the brain registers it. |
42:26  | It's the function of the brain |
to register that pain | |
42:30  | so as to safeguard itself, |
42:35  | so that it doesn't do things |
that will bring about pain. | |
42:41  | So it must register. |
42:45  | Then what takes place? |
42:47  | Look at it carefully |
for yourself. | |
42:50  | It has registered and |
42:56  | then there is the fear |
of that pain happening again later. | |
43:05  | So, that registration |
has caused fear. | |
43:15  | We're asking, is it possible, |
having had that pain, | |
43:21  | to end it, not carry it on? |
43:30  | Are you following this? |
43:33  | Am I making it clear? |
43:41  | We are talking from actual fact, |
not a theory, | |
43:48  | because we've all had pain |
of some kind or other, | |
43:53  | great pain or a little pain. |
43:57  | And having that pain, |
end it, not carry over. | |
44:10  | Then the brain has the security |
44:15  | of being free and intelligent. |
44:22  | You see that? |
44:24  | Because the moment you carry it over |
it is never free of fear, | |
44:30  | it is never free. |
44:37  | But having had that pain, |
at the end of the day end it, | |
44:41  | don't think about it, |
let it worry you, | |
44:43  | my God, it's going to |
happen again tomorrow, | |
44:46  | consult the doctor, |
take drugs, etc., | |
44:49  | but end it, and then |
you will see for yourself. | |
44:55  | So we are asking, together, |
44:57  | I am not asking, |
you are also asking, | |
45:03  | whether it is possible |
not to register at all | |
45:09  | excepting the things |
that are absolutely necessary. | |
45:16  | The necessary things |
are knowledge, | |
45:19  | how to drive a car, |
45:22  | how to speak a language, |
45:26  | technological knowledge |
45:30  | – please follow this carefully - |
45:32  | technological knowledge, |
the knowledge of reading, writing, | |
45:37  | and all the things |
involved in that. | |
45:45  | But in our human relationship, |
between man and woman, | |
45:50  | every incident in that relationship |
is registered. | |
45:58  | Are you following this? |
46:06  | It is registered |
and therefore what takes place? | |
46:15  | The woman gets irritated, |
or nagging, | |
46:18  | or friendly, kindly, |
46:20  | or says something |
just before you go off to the office, | |
46:22  | which is ugly, |
46:25  | so you build up |
46:28  | through registration |
the image about her, | |
46:33  | and she builds |
an image about you. | |
46:37  | This is an actual fact, no? |
46:41  | For God's sake, |
am I saying something extraordinary? | |
46:55  | In human relationship, |
between man and woman, | |
46:59  | or between a neighbour |
and so on, | |
47:03  | the image-making |
is the process of registration. | |
47:10  | That is when |
a wife says something ugly, | |
47:14  | to listen to it and end it, |
not register it. | |
47:20  | Or when the husband |
says something ugly, | |
47:23  | listen to it carefully, |
end it, not carry it on. | |
47:28  | Then you will find |
that there is no image making at all, | |
47:37  | because if there is no image |
between the man and the woman, | |
47:42  | then relationship is quite different |
– entirely different! | |
47:48  | But when there is an image |
between the two, | |
47:52  | the relationship is between |
one thought | |
47:56  | opposed to another thought. |
48:01  | And that we call relationship, |
which actually it's not, | |
48:06  | it's just an idea |
48:09  | that you are my wife |
or my girlfriend, just an idea. | |
48:15  | Do you get all this? |
48:19  | I hope you are equally active |
as the speaker is. | |
48:31  | So we are enquiring |
into the question of | |
48:35  | what is the nature |
and the structure of pleasure. | |
48:41  | Pleasure |
is the continuation of an incident, | |
48:51  | that continuation given |
by thought. | |
48:58  | So thought |
is the root of pleasure. | |
49:07  | If you had no thought, |
you saw a beautiful thing, | |
49:11  | it would end. |
49:14  | But thought says no, |
I must have more, | |
49:18  | the whole movement of thought. |
49:21  | So what is the relationship |
of pleasure to joy? | |
49:34  | Joy comes to you uninvited, |
it happens. | |
49:41  | You're walking along in a street |
or sitting in a bus, | |
49:45  | or wandering in the woods, |
seeing the flowers, the hills, | |
49:49  | and the clouds and the blue sky |
49:51  | and suddenly there is |
an extraordinary feeling of great joy. | |
49:58  | Then registration, |
50:02  | thought says, |
what a marvellous thing that was, | |
50:05  | I must have more of it. |
50:07  | So joy |
is made into pleasure by thought. | |
50:16  | This is not analysis, |
this is mere observation. | |
50:27  | That is, seeing things as they are, |
not as you want them to be. | |
50:35  | Seeing things exactly |
without any distortion, | |
50:40  | what is taking place. |
50:46  | When you do that |
we are together, | |
50:49  | we are journeying together, |
50:52  | we are exploring together. |
50:58  | So from that: |
51:02  | what is love? |
51:06  | What time is it, sir? |
51:09  | Audience: Eleven twenty. |
51:12  | K: What is love? |
51:17  | Please, again, |
we all have so many opinions about it. | |
51:27  | We have got |
such extraordinary ideas about it: | |
51:33  | love is this, love is not that, |
51:35  | you mustn't talk about love |
in front of a girl, | |
51:38  | extraordinary things we have. |
51:43  | Now, we are going to |
examine the thing clearly. | |
51:48  | Examine it together. |
51:53  | The speaker is not |
telling you what love is, | |
51:57  | or you are |
telling the speaker what love is, | |
52:01  | but we are examining it. |
52:06  | So you must be free |
of your prejudice. | |
52:10  | You must be free of your opinions, |
what love should be. | |
52:17  | You are free to look. |
52:24  | So what is love? |
52:28  | Is it pleasure? |
52:36  | As we said, pleasure |
is the movement of thought | |
52:41  | and the continuation of an incident |
through the movement of thought, | |
52:45  | which is pleasure, |
which is explained very carefully, | |
52:49  | it is not my explanation, |
you can observe it for yourself. | |
52:54  | And we say, is that pleasure? |
52:56  | Is the movement of thought |
love? | |
53:02  | You understand? |
53:06  | Is love a remembrance, |
53:13  | a thing that has happened, |
53:17  | between a man and woman |
that happened, | |
53:23  | and the remembrance of it, |
53:26  | and living in that remembrance |
53:30  | and feeling that remembrance |
which is over, | |
53:33  | resuscitating it |
and saying, | |
53:37  | what a marvellous thing that was when |
we were together under that tree, | |
53:43  | that was love. |
53:47  | That is the remembrance |
of a thing that's gone. | |
53:51  | Is that love? |
53:55  | Is love the pleasure of sex, |
54:01  | in which there is tenderness, |
kindliness, etc., | |
54:06  | is that love? |
54:07  | We are not saying |
it is or it is not. | |
54:10  | We are questioning, |
54:12  | as you must question |
everything in life! | |
54:21  | Doubt – everything. |
54:28  | But if you doubt everything |
you'll have nothing left. | |
54:35  | Doubt must be kept on a leash, |
54:38  | as you keep a dog |
on a rope or a leash, | |
54:43  | so doubt |
must be kept on a leash, | |
54:46  | and you must know when to let it go |
and when to hold it back. | |
54:50  | That's the art of doubt. |
54:56  | So we are doubting, questioning |
55:00  | everything that man |
has put together | |
55:03  | by saying, this is love. |
55:10  | So we say, is love pleasure? |
55:20  | If it is, |
55:22  | then pleasure gives emphasis |
to the remembrance, | |
55:32  | to past things, |
55:33  | brings about importance |
of the me: | |
55:40  | my pleasure, |
my excitement, my remembrances. | |
55:47  | So is that love? |
55:51  | And is love desire? |
55:55  | Ask these questions, |
55:59  | burn with these questions, |
56:02  | because you've got to find out, |
56:06  | because we have reduced love |
into pleasure, | |
56:14  | which is a daily fact. |
56:20  | Is love desire? |
56:25  | So what is desire? |
56:31  | I desire a car, |
56:34  | I desire a house, |
56:37  | one desires prominence, |
power, position. | |
56:41  | There are a dozen things |
one desires: | |
56:45  | to be beautiful as you are, |
56:47  | to be as intelligent, as clever, |
as smart as you are, | |
56:52  | desire. |
56:56  | And what is desire? |
57:00  | Does desire bring clarity? |
57:06  | Please question it with me. |
57:09  | The thing you call love, |
57:12  | and we are saying |
is that love based on desire, | |
57:19  | desire to possess a woman, |
57:21  | to sleep with a woman, |
or sleep with a man, | |
57:23  | desire to hold her, possess her, |
dominate her, control her, | |
57:30  | she's mine, not yours. |
57:36  | And the pleasure |
derived in that possession, | |
57:41  | in that dominance. |
57:49  | Man dominates the world, |
57:51  | and so there is the woman |
fighting the domination. | |
57:58  | So what is the nature |
and the structure of desire? | |
58:06  | Desire, not for something, |
58:11  | not for the house, |
for a good car, | |
58:15  | or position, power, |
58:16  | be prominent in your little society, |
in your little pond. | |
58:22  | So we have to find out |
what is desire. | |
58:26  | We're not saying |
we shouldn't have desire. | |
58:30  | That's what the churches |
throughout the world say, | |
58:33  | the organised religions |
have said, suppress desire. | |
58:39  | If you want to serve God |
you must be without desire. | |
58:49  | And the priests |
have maintained that | |
58:55  | but though they talk about |
being without desire | |
58:59  | they are burning with desire, |
boiling with it. | |
59:03  | They may not want |
worldly things, | |
59:04  | they want to become the bishop, |
the archbishop, the pope, | |
59:08  | climb the ladder |
of spiritual success. | |
59:18  | So what is desire? |
59:20  | Does desire bring about clarity, |
59:26  | and therefore that clarity |
is skill in action. | |
59:41  | In the field of desire |
does compassion flower? | |
59:48  | You have to ask |
these questions. | |
59:51  | So to find out |
the truth of the matter | |
59:57  | you must examine |
what desire is, | |
59:59  | not desire for the object, |
the objects are not important, | |
1:00:03  | you can vary, |
1:00:05  | when you're a child |
you desire a toy, | |
1:00:08  | as you grow older |
you desire something else. | |
1:00:12  | So we are not discussing, |
1:00:14  | or talking over together |
the objects of desire, | |
1:00:18  | but actually what is desire. |
1:00:25  | If it does not bring clarity, |
1:00:30  | and if desire is not the field |
in which there is the beauty | |
1:00:36  | and the greatness of compassion, |
1:00:40  | then what place has desire? |
1:00:46  | So you must go into it |
and find out, | |
1:00:50  | not according |
to any psychologist, | |
1:00:54  | any preacher, |
1:00:55  | including that of the speaker, |
1:01:00  | but together, to find out. |
1:01:04  | We are insisting |
that we think together, | |
1:01:09  | reason together, |
1:01:11  | find out together. |
1:01:13  | Not, I find and then you accept, |
or reject, | |
1:01:17  | but together find out. |
1:01:22  | So what is desire? |
1:01:28  | Desire for a better society, |
1:01:33  | and the cultivation of that desire |
which becomes passion for an idea. | |
1:01:42  | People are so committed to Communism, |
they are passionate about it, | |
1:01:50  | or to any other form |
of ideological projection. | |
1:01:57  | It becomes very important |
to go into this question | |
1:02:01  | of what is desire, |
1:02:04  | not how to suppress it, |
1:02:07  | how to run away from it, |
1:02:09  | how to make it more beautiful, |
1:02:14  | but just what is desire? |
1:02:16  | How does it come about |
that human beings are caught in this? | |
1:02:24  | One year you are a Christian, |
or for thirty years a Christian, | |
1:02:29  | then you throw that out |
1:02:30  | and join some other label |
called Hindu, | |
1:02:34  | or Buddhist, or whatever it is, |
or Zen. | |
1:02:42  | In enquiring |
we must deal with facts, | |
1:02:51  | not with opinions, |
1:02:53  | not with judgements, |
1:02:56  | then you have your opinion, |
1:02:58  | and the speaker, |
he has no opinion, | |
1:03:00  | and so there is a battle, |
therefore there is no communication. | |
1:03:05  | But we are going into facts, |
1:03:09  | not your fact or my fact, |
1:03:12  | but the fact that human beings |
have colossal desires, | |
1:03:19  | absurd desires, |
illusory desires. | |
1:03:25  | So what is desire? |
1:03:29  | How does it come? |
1:03:36  | Go into it, look at it, |
you have your own desires, | |
1:03:40  | unfortunately or fortunately. |
1:03:44  | Desire to be good, |
you know. | |
1:03:48  | How does that desire |
arise from you, in you? | |
1:03:57  | You see a beautiful woman |
or a beautiful man | |
1:04:02  | – see. |
1:04:05  | Perception, |
1:04:08  | the seeing, |
1:04:13  | then the contact, |
1:04:17  | then the sensation, |
1:04:22  | then that sensation |
is taken over by thought, | |
1:04:26  | which becomes desire |
with its image. | |
1:04:31  | Follow it yourself, |
you will see it. | |
1:04:36  | You see a beautiful vase, |
1:04:39  | a beautiful sculpture |
1:04:42  | – I don't mean |
the modern sculpture, sorry. | |
1:04:47  | Somebody may like that, |
but personally I don't like it – | |
1:04:51  | you see a beautiful statue, |
1:04:56  | the ancient Egyptian |
or the Greek, | |
1:05:02  | and you look at it. |
1:05:07  | As you look at it, |
1:05:08  | if they allow you to touch it, |
you touch it. | |
1:05:13  | See the depth of that figure |
1:05:17  | as he sits on a chair, |
or cross-legged. | |
1:05:22  | And then from that |
there is a sensation, isn't there? | |
1:05:26  | What a marvellous thing. |
1:05:30  | And from that sensation |
the desire says, | |
1:05:34  | I wish I had that in my room. |
1:05:41  | I wish I could look at it |
every day, | |
1:05:44  | touch it every day. |
1:05:46  | And the pride of possession |
1:05:48  | to have such a marvellous thing |
like that. | |
1:05:54  | That is desire, isn't it? |
1:05:57  | Seeing, |
1:06:00  | contact, |
1:06:02  | sensation, |
1:06:05  | then thought, |
using that sensation | |
1:06:09  | to cultivate the desire |
to possess or not to possess. | |
1:06:16  | This is obvious, |
it's not my explanation. | |
1:06:21  | It is a factual explanation. |
1:06:25  | Now comes the difficulty: |
1:06:46  | realising that the religious people |
throughout the world have said, | |
1:06:56  | don't look! |
1:07:02  | When a woman comes near you |
look at something else. | |
1:07:09  | Think of her as your sister, mother, |
God, or whatever it is. | |
1:07:14  | You laugh, |
you are born in this. | |
1:07:18  | You are conditioned to this. |
1:07:27  | All the religious people have said, |
take vows of celibacy. | |
1:07:33  | Don't look at a woman. |
1:07:36  | If you do look, |
treat her as your sister, | |
1:07:40  | mother, |
whatever you like, | |
1:07:41  | because you are |
in the service of God, | |
1:07:44  | and you need |
all your energy to serve him. | |
1:07:49  | In the service of God |
1:07:50  | you're going to have |
great tribulations, | |
1:07:54  | therefore be prepared, |
don't waste your energy. | |
1:07:58  | But the thing is boiling. |
1:08:04  | So we are trying to understand |
that which is boiling. | |
1:08:10  | Not to look at a woman or a man, |
1:08:12  | but that which is desire |
that is constantly battling, | |
1:08:17  | wants to fulfil, |
wants to complete itself. | |
1:08:22  | So we said, |
desire is the movement of | |
1:08:28  | parception, seeing, contact, |
sensation, | |
1:08:35  | thought as desire |
with its image. | |
1:08:45  | We are saying, |
1:08:47  | see, touch, sensation, |
that's normal, healthy, right ? | |
1:08:56  | End it there! |
1:08:59  | Don't let thought |
come and say, yes, | |
1:09:03  | take it over |
and make it into a desire. | |
1:09:08  | Understand this, |
then you will see. | |
1:09:11  | Then you'll never suppress, |
there'll be no suppression of desire. | |
1:09:17  | That is, |
1:09:20  | you see a beautiful house, |
1:09:23  | well proportioned, |
lovely windows, | |
1:09:28  | beautiful garden, |
well kept, | |
1:09:31  | with a roof |
that melts into the sky, | |
1:09:37  | walls that are thick, |
and, you know, | |
1:09:41  | part of the earth. |
1:09:43  | You look at it, |
there is sensation. | |
1:09:47  | You touch it, |
you may not actually touch it, | |
1:09:50  | you touch it with your eyes, |
1:09:53  | then you smell the air, |
the herb, the newly cut grass. | |
1:10:02  | Can't you end it there? |
1:10:09  | Why does sensation |
become desire? | |
1:10:14  | You are following this, |
am I making it clear? | |
1:10:18  | When there is perception, |
contact, sensation, | |
1:10:26  | it is natural, it's beautiful |
1:10:29  | to see a lovely thing, |
or an ugly thing. | |
1:10:36  | To end it there, |
say, it's a beautiful house. | |
1:10:43  | Then there is no registration |
as thought which says, | |
1:10:48  | I wish I had that house, |
1:10:52  | which is the desire |
and the continuation of desire. | |
1:10:56  | You can do this so easily! |
1:11:01  | And I mean it, easily, |
1:11:03  | if you understand |
the nature of desire. | |
1:11:12  | So we're asking: |
1:11:16  | is pleasure love? |
1:11:20  | Is remembrance love? |
1:11:25  | Is desire love? |
1:11:29  | So pleasure, |
remembrance, desire, | |
1:11:33  | are the movement of thought. |
1:11:37  | Therefore one asks: |
1:11:40  | does thought cultivate love? |
1:11:44  | Is thought love? |
1:11:49  | Am I making this clear? |
1:11:51  | Please, come on. |
1:11:52  | A: Yes. |
1:11:55  | K: So find out. |
1:12:01  | If it is not pleasure, |
1:12:04  | because pleasure has its place, |
1:12:07  | it is not desire, |
1:12:09  | it is not remembrance |
though they have their places, | |
1:12:13  | then what is love? |
1:12:19  | Is love jealousy? |
1:12:24  | Is love a sense of possession? |
1:12:29  | My wife, |
my husband, my girl, | |
1:12:35  | possession? |
1:12:42  | Has love within it fear? |
1:12:49  | Ask these questions, find out. |
1:12:52  | Therefore if it is |
none of these things | |
1:12:56  | – none of these things! – |
1:12:59  | entirely wiping away |
all these things, | |
1:13:02  | putting all these |
in the right place, | |
1:13:05  | then love is |
1:13:07  | you understand, |
then love is! | |
1:13:21  | We are saying |
1:13:28  | that through the negation |
the positive is. | |
1:13:38  | Through negation. |
1:13:40  | That is, |
1:13:44  | is pleasure love? |
1:13:46  | And we examined pleasure |
1:13:50  | and we see |
it's not quite that, | |
1:13:53  | though pleasure has its place, |
it's not that, right? | |
1:13:57  | So you negate that. |
1:13:59  | You say it is not remembrance, |
though remembrances are necessary. | |
1:14:05  | So we put remembrance |
in its right place, | |
1:14:08  | therefore you have negated |
remembrance as not being love. | |
1:14:12  | You have negated desire, |
though desire has its certain place. | |
1:14:17  | Therefore you say, |
through negation the positive is. | |
1:14:26  | But we, on the contrary, |
we posit the positive | |
1:14:35  | and then get caught |
in the negative. | |
1:14:41  | That is, |
one must begin with doubt, | |
1:14:46  | completely doubting, |
1:14:49  | then you end up with certainty. |
1:14:52  | But if you start with certainty, |
as all of you do, | |
1:14:56  | then you end up in |
uncertainty and chaos. | |
1:15:03  | So, in negation |
the positive is born. | |
1:15:13  | I've finished. |
1:15:18  | I've finished for this morning. |
1:15:22  | We'll continue next Tuesday. |