Can we together create a good society?
Saanen - 10 July 1979
Public Talk 2
0:57 | Krishnamurti: May we continue |
1:00 | with what we were talking about |
on Sunday morning? | |
1:05 | Will that be all right? |
1:17 | I wonder |
if you have thought any more | |
1:20 | about what we were talking |
on Sunday morning. | |
1:30 | Whether you have gone into it |
deeply by yourselves | |
1:37 | and have come to a certain point, |
1:42 | beyond perhaps which |
you may not be able to go, | |
1:48 | and if so, |
we could go into it much further. | |
1:54 | What we were saying |
on Sunday morning | |
1:58 | was that we must have the capacity |
to think together. | |
2:09 | The capacity comes |
naturally and inevitably | |
2:20 | if one sees the importance |
2:24 | and the necessity, |
in a corrupting world, | |
2:33 | that to think together |
does not imply | |
2:39 | agreement or disagreement, |
2:43 | but putting aside |
one’s own particular point of view, | |
2:53 | one’s own particular prejudice, |
2:58 | opinion, judgement, |
3:05 | and having the capacity thus |
to think together. | |
3:16 | Because when we think together, |
3:24 | there is no division, |
3:28 | you are not thinking separately |
from the speaker. | |
3:35 | Sorry, I’ve got slight hay fever. |
3:39 | Don’t give me medicines. |
3:54 | If we are able to think together, |
4:03 | the division between you and another |
comes to an end. | |
4:07 | There is only thinking, |
4:11 | not your way of thinking |
4:14 | or another way of thinking, |
4:17 | just the capacity to think together. |
4:27 | But that is not possible |
4:29 | if you don’t put aside |
your own particular conclusions, | |
4:35 | your own vanity, |
4:38 | your own personal demands, |
4:41 | otherwise there is |
no coming together. | |
4:46 | The word ‘together’ |
means walking together, | |
4:51 | being together all the time, |
4:53 | not you walk ahead |
and the other walks behind, | |
4:58 | but walking together means |
5:01 | we are both going |
along the same way, | |
5:06 | not thinking different things, |
5:09 | observing the same thing, |
5:12 | not translating what you observed |
5:14 | in your own particular |
inclination or prejudice, | |
5:20 | but observing together, listening |
together, walking together. | |
5:31 | I wonder if you realise – |
5:33 | when that takes place, what happens |
between two human beings? | |
5:45 | There is great demand, |
a great urge | |
5:49 | in this present permissive society |
5:53 | that each one of us |
must fulfil, | |
5:57 | sexually, emotionally, |
and so on – | |
6:03 | the desire to fulfil. |
6:07 | And with it goes naturally |
the whole problem of frustration. | |
6:15 | Please, listen carefully |
to what I am pointing out. | |
6:18 | Don’t accept or deny |
what we are talking about, | |
6:22 | but we are thinking together, |
and I mean thinking together. | |
6:33 | When one is seeking |
fulfilment in another | |
6:39 | or desiring to be and become |
and therefore act, | |
6:47 | which is a form of fulfilment, |
6:50 | then in that movement |
there is frustration, | |
6:54 | all kinds of neurotic ideas, |
neurosis, and so on, so on. | |
7:03 | But when we think together, |
7:08 | that is, you have dropped |
your particular opinion, | |
7:12 | judgement, and so on, |
7:14 | and the other has |
also dropped his, | |
7:17 | there is no division |
7:19 | and therefore there is |
no sense of fulfilment | |
7:23 | – I wonder if you get this – |
7:26 | and therefore |
no sense of frustration. | |
7:32 | Please, |
this is not a verbal conclusion, | |
7:38 | an idealistic concept, |
something to be achieved, | |
7:47 | but the realisation |
of the actual fact | |
7:55 | that as long as we are not thinking |
together about everything | |
8:04 | – politics, religion, economics, |
personal relationships, and so on – | |
8:09 | thinking together, |
8:11 | there must be division, |
8:14 | and out of that division |
there arises the desire to fulfil, | |
8:20 | and inevitable sequence of that |
is frustration | |
8:27 | with all its neurosis |
and all the inevitable reactions. | |
8:36 | When we think together, |
all that comes to an end. | |
8:45 | I wonder |
if you are following this. | |
8:54 | If one may ask, |
you have, perhaps some of you, | |
9:01 | listened to Sunday morning’s talk |
9:08 | and have you inwardly dropped |
your personal opinion, | |
9:16 | your conclusion, your experience? |
9:22 | Or you hold on to them, |
consciously or unconsciously, | |
9:30 | and make an effort |
to think together? | |
9:35 | And of course, |
that is rather childish, | |
9:39 | which only maintains |
a certain verbal communication, | |
9:45 | but in actuality |
there is division | |
9:49 | and therefore there is conflict. |
9:53 | When we think together, |
conflict comes to an end. | |
9:58 | I wonder if you see this? |
10:01 | Please, you must get this. |
10:10 | Because we human beings |
for millennia upon millennia | |
10:15 | have lived with conflict |
10:18 | – struggle, strife of various kinds: |
10:24 | physical, psychological, emotional, |
10:28 | exploiting each other – |
10:32 | the whole human relationship |
is based on that. | |
10:41 | And in thinking together, |
10:44 | relationship undergoes |
a fundamental change, | |
10:50 | because there is no division. |
10:54 | If you are ambitious and |
another is not ambitious, | |
10:58 | there is division. |
11:01 | If you believe in God or in Jesus |
or Krishna, whatever it is, | |
11:08 | and the other doesn’t, |
11:09 | there is division |
and therefore there is conflict. | |
11:11 | You may tolerate each other, |
that is what is happening now, | |
11:17 | but division exists |
– nationalism, and so on. | |
11:23 | So if we could |
during these talks, | |
11:28 | – I don’t know how many of them, |
I believe ten or so – | |
11:30 | if we could, |
a group of us, | |
11:34 | all of us if we can, |
at least a few of us, | |
11:40 | apply our minds |
11:44 | to find out if we can |
absolutely think together. | |
11:54 | Therefore when we do that, |
11:57 | the relationship between us |
completely undergoes a change. | |
12:02 | Right? |
I wonder if you see this? | |
12:09 | And also we were saying on Sunday, |
12:13 | psychologically thought |
has accepted | |
12:25 | the progressive |
evolutionary process, | |
12:31 | and therefore it is always |
trying to become something, | |
12:35 | or be something. |
12:38 | And we talked about time, |
12:42 | if there is |
12:44 | – please listen, |
play with it – | |
12:50 | if there is psychological time |
at all tomorrow, | |
12:55 | if there is psychologically |
the future. | |
13:02 | If there is not, |
13:07 | then what is the relationship |
between two human beings | |
13:11 | who have no future? |
13:16 | You understand? |
You are following my question? | |
13:20 | Not my question, |
it is your question. | |
13:25 | You may not have put it to yourself, |
but it is being put forward. | |
13:30 | So you have to look at it. |
13:39 | We have, throughout the centuries, |
13:45 | religiously, politically, |
and in different ways, | |
13:51 | have accepted |
this idea of gradualness. | |
13:57 | Right? |
That is obvious. | |
14:00 | Gradually I will become perfect, |
14:03 | gradually I will be |
less this and more that. | |
14:09 | In this gradational |
conclusion and evolution, | |
14:16 | measurement has become important. |
14:20 | Naturally. |
You follow all this? | |
14:26 | That is, measurement |
14:28 | – what one was, what one is |
and what one will be – | |
14:34 | which is a measurement. |
14:37 | Measurement is time, |
14:46 | and we are questioning, |
questioning together, | |
14:50 | if there is |
psychological time at all. | |
14:57 | There is chronological time, |
obviously, | |
15:00 | because we are going to meet |
if you want to, | |
15:03 | the day after tomorrow morning |
– that is obvious. | |
15:10 | If you want to go and play golf or |
go to the cinema or whatever it is, | |
15:13 | there is the day after tomorrow. |
15:16 | But psychologically, inwardly, |
is there time? | |
15:26 | Or thought has invented time, |
psychologically, | |
15:33 | because it is too lazy, indolent |
15:38 | and also because |
it doesn’t know | |
15:41 | how to deal |
with what is actually happening. | |
15:46 | Therefore it says: give me time. |
15:52 | One does not know |
how to be free of envy, | |
15:57 | but I’ll think about it, |
I’ll work at it | |
16:01 | and gradually get rid of it |
– if you want. | |
16:05 | But if you like to keep it, |
that’s all right. | |
16:09 | So this has been |
our conditioning. | |
16:14 | Right? |
16:16 | You are following this? |
16:19 | Not verbally, please, |
watch it in your own self. | |
16:24 | This has been your conditioning, |
16:27 | and somebody comes along |
like the speaker | |
16:30 | and says, ‘Is this so?’ |
16:36 | You have accepted it, |
16:38 | this has been the tradition, |
educated tradition, | |
16:44 | not a superstition, |
16:46 | because all people have – |
16:48 | scientists and others have talked |
about the ascent of man | |
16:53 | through accumulation of knowledge, |
which is time, and so on | |
16:58 | – you have accepted it. |
17:00 | And the speaker |
comes along and says, | |
17:03 | ‘Look, you may be all wrong, |
question it’. | |
17:13 | So he says, perhaps there is |
no psychologically tomorrow. | |
17:20 | You understand it? |
17:22 | No, see the importance |
of this question. | |
17:25 | What happens to you |
17:27 | if you put that question |
very seriously, | |
17:32 | not as an idea, |
but as an actuality? | |
17:39 | Actuality means that |
which is happening now. | |
17:45 | Right? |
17:47 | If you put that question |
to yourself, | |
17:50 | then what is the quality of the mind |
17:54 | that does not think of tomorrow |
psychologically? | |
17:59 | You follow? |
You have got my question? | |
18:05 | Right? |
18:06 | What happens if there is |
no future psychologically | |
18:14 | – there is a future: |
18:16 | you have to go and have your lunch, |
18:19 | you have to sleep, |
you have to do this and that | |
18:22 | – but psychologically, |
if there is no future, | |
18:25 | what is your relationship |
with another? | |
18:30 | You have got this? |
You have understood this? | |
18:36 | Have you solved this question |
which was put forward yesterday? | |
18:43 | What is your relationship |
with your wife or girlfriend, | |
18:47 | or with your... etc., |
18:50 | if there is no tomorrow? |
18:59 | If you have tomorrow, |
psychologically, | |
19:07 | then you create the image, |
19:11 | you pursue that image |
about her or him, | |
19:16 | you have the memory cultivated |
in relation to that person, | |
19:22 | and you act according |
to that memory, to that experience. | |
19:27 | You pursue that. |
19:30 | Right? |
19:33 | So, when there is |
psychologically a future, | |
19:41 | then it becomes mechanistic. |
19:46 | You follow |
what I mean by mechanistic | |
19:47 | – routine, repetition, |
acting on remembrance. | |
19:59 | Now, if there is no |
psychologically tomorrow, | |
20:05 | what has taken place |
in your relationship? | |
20:09 | In your relationship, |
not as an idea, | |
20:12 | in your actual relationship |
to your wife, to your husband, | |
20:17 | to your friend, |
to your boy, to your girl, | |
20:19 | what actually takes place? |
20:22 | You understand this? |
20:32 | Are you interested in this? |
20:40 | Which means you have |
not only investigated the concept, | |
20:46 | the conditioning |
of psychological future | |
20:52 | and have understood |
the whole significance of it, | |
20:56 | rationally, sanely, logically, |
20:59 | and said, |
‘That may not be’. | |
21:04 | So you have hesitantly moved away |
from your conditioning. | |
21:11 | And when you put this question, |
your mind is free to observe, | |
21:19 | is no longer tethered |
to your conditioning | |
21:25 | that there is a future. |
21:27 | You have got it? |
21:32 | What is your relationship |
to another | |
21:36 | when tomorrow psychologically |
is not there? | |
21:58 | Perhaps we could approach – |
22:00 | I don’t want to answer |
this question, | |
22:03 | we’ll find out for ourselves |
as we go along. | |
22:07 | I know you are waiting |
for me to answer it, | |
22:10 | which would be |
22:11 | – there is no point, it would |
become verbal, rather silly. | |
22:18 | But if you could pursue that thing |
in a different direction, | |
22:25 | perhaps we will catch |
the inward significance | |
22:29 | and the beauty and the truth of it. |
22:42 | The ancient Hindus and the Greeks |
22:52 | formulated a concept |
of a good society. | |
23:00 | Don’t get bored with this. |
23:08 | They said a good society |
is this, this, this. | |
23:17 | The Greeks said a good society |
is justice, and so on, so on. | |
23:25 | The ancient Hindus said |
a good society is only possible | |
23:32 | if there are a group of people |
who have renounced the world | |
23:37 | – please, careful, I am not |
asking you to do it, anything, | |
23:41 | I am pointing out – |
23:45 | who do not own property, |
23:52 | who are outside society, |
23:57 | and being outside society, |
24:00 | they are responsible |
to the activities of the society. | |
24:05 | You follow? |
24:10 | Not that they withdraw, |
24:12 | but being outside society, |
24:17 | they are morally incorruptible, |
24:23 | because they didn’t own property |
of any kind. | |
24:51 | And they were morally, |
ethically, religiously clear. | |
25:04 | They would not kill, |
and so on, so on. | |
25:08 | And for a certain time, probably, |
that existed. | |
25:13 | Then it, like everything else, |
25:16 | it degenerated into what |
the world knows as a Brahmin. | |
25:23 | The Greeks had the same idea: |
25:27 | that a good society |
must exist in the world. | |
25:34 | And it was an idealistic, |
formulated, ideological society. | |
25:46 | Ideas – you understand? – |
ideals, | |
25:53 | and according to them, |
they formulated very carefully, | |
26:00 | the Aristotelian, and so on, |
society, | |
26:05 | but never existed. |
26:11 | Now we are saying |
– please, listen – | |
26:15 | can we bring about |
a good society, | |
26:19 | not ideologically, not as a utopia, |
26:25 | as something to be done, |
achieved, | |
26:30 | but a society, which means |
26:34 | a relationship between two people |
is society. | |
26:38 | You are following all this? |
26:41 | Can we as a group |
create such a good society? | |
26:46 | Now wait a minute. |
26:48 | The Greeks formulated, the Hindus |
formulated and probably the Chinese, | |
26:54 | but we are not |
formulating anything. | |
26:59 | We are not saying the ideal |
27:03 | – society must be this, this, this. |
27:07 | We are not saying that |
27:10 | because that becomes a utopia, |
an ideal to be pursued | |
27:15 | – you are following all this? – |
something to be done. | |
27:23 | We are talking about a good society |
27:31 | which can only come into being |
27:35 | when you as a human being, |
representative of all mankind | |
27:44 | – I’m coming to that, |
hold on to it – | |
27:49 | are responsible |
to another human being. | |
27:57 | When we say |
you are the whole of mankind, | |
28:10 | psychologically you are. |
28:14 | Right? |
28:16 | You may have |
a different shape of head, | |
28:21 | lighter skin or darker skin, |
28:26 | better food – |
therefore you are taller, | |
28:31 | in a temperate climate, |
28:34 | your name may be different, |
28:36 | but psychologically |
we live at the same level | |
28:44 | – sorrow, pain, |
anxiety, frustration, | |
28:50 | a sense of hopeless loneliness, |
great sorrow. You follow? | |
28:56 | This exists right through the world. |
29:03 | This is a fact, |
29:05 | it is not an idea which you accept. |
29:10 | If you go to India, |
29:13 | you see the same phenomena |
there as here. | |
29:17 | They are darker people, |
over-populated, poverty, | |
29:24 | but psychologically |
they are anxious, | |
29:27 | insecure, confused, miserable, |
29:30 | worship something |
which they imagine, | |
29:34 | just like here. |
29:36 | So there is great similarity. |
29:43 | And psychologically |
it is the same movement, | |
29:48 | varied, modified, |
29:51 | but the source of this movement is |
the same for all mankind – right? | |
29:56 | You see this? |
29:59 | Not as an idea but as an actuality, |
that is, what is happening. | |
30:07 | Right? |
30:10 | So you are the rest of mankind. |
30:24 | If you see that, |
30:27 | you won’t give such |
tremendous importance to yourself, | |
30:34 | your personal anxieties, |
your personal fulfilment, | |
30:40 | you know, all the self-centred |
egotistic problems, | |
30:44 | because you are like everybody else. |
30:50 | But you have to solve it. |
30:56 | Right? |
30:59 | So, we are saying |
31:08 | – I am getting rather tired, |
are you? – | |
31:14 | we are saying a good society |
can come into being immediately, | |
31:25 | not something to be achieved |
in the future. | |
31:32 | That good society |
can come into being only | |
31:36 | when we think together, |
31:39 | which means no division |
between you and another. | |
31:45 | Then our whole conduct changes. |
Right, do you see that? | |
31:52 | Then one does not |
exploit the other, | |
31:57 | either sexually or in various |
psychological subtle ways. | |
32:07 | Right? |
At least verbally follow this. | |
32:14 | But verbally means nothing, |
32:17 | like following empty air, |
32:23 | holding empty ashes |
in your empty hand. | |
32:31 | So, we are saying a good society, |
32:36 | which must exist |
in this terrible world, | |
32:43 | in this murderous world, |
32:47 | immoral society, |
32:51 | if a group of us |
can think together, | |
33:01 | therefore I asked: |
33:03 | what is the relationship |
of you to another | |
33:12 | if there is no |
psychological future? | |
33:18 | You see, you understand |
what has happened? | |
33:24 | Do you… |
33:30 | What has happened to a mind |
– please, listen – | |
33:33 | what has happened to a mind |
33:40 | that has been accustomed, |
trained, educated, conditioned | |
33:46 | to accept the whole |
pattern of a life | |
33:52 | which is based on the future? |
33:59 | That has been your way of life. |
34:07 | In that is involved the constant |
effort to become, to achieve – | |
34:14 | competition, comparison, |
34:19 | imitation, the struggle. |
34:27 | If intelligently you don’t accept |
that way of living, | |
34:35 | which means |
34:36 | that you do not accept in your |
relationship with another future, | |
34:45 | then what takes place in your mind, |
what has happened to your mind? | |
35:09 | This is an important question |
if you can solve it for yourself | |
35:16 | – not solve it. |
35:39 | If your mind has that quality |
35:44 | that is not acting |
– please, listen – | |
35:48 | from an ideological point of view, |
35:53 | having an ideal |
and acting according to that ideal, | |
35:57 | which means division |
36:00 | therefore no ideals whatever, |
36:14 | and therefore no attempt |
to achieve something | |
36:19 | other than understand |
what is actually happening. | |
36:25 | Have you understood this? |
36:34 | Are you all asleep? |
36:36 | Q: No. |
36:46 | K: You come and tell me |
that there is no tomorrow. | |
36:54 | I listen very carefully |
to what you say | |
36:59 | because perhaps you have something, |
37:05 | a way of living |
in which there is no conflict. | |
37:13 | You come and tell me that. |
37:19 | First, I ask myself: |
am I listening to you? | |
37:28 | Am I actually absorbing |
what you are saying? | |
37:33 | Or am I translating |
what you’re saying | |
37:38 | into an idea and accepting the idea |
37:43 | – follow it carefully! – |
37:46 | and rejecting or accepting that idea |
37:51 | and then say – how am I to live |
according to that idea? | |
37:57 | You follow? |
37:58 | That is what you are all doing. |
38:04 | Whereas the man says: |
don’t do that, but just listen. | |
38:12 | Listen to the fact |
that you have lived this way, | |
38:17 | see all the consequences |
of living that way, | |
38:21 | what are the implications, |
logically, step by step. | |
38:26 | You have lived that way |
38:28 | and therefore you have become, |
38:32 | your mind has become |
completely mechanistic | |
38:36 | – routine, repeat, |
repetition, following. | |
38:42 | If you see that very carefully, |
he says to me, | |
38:47 | find out for yourself |
38:53 | what happens if you do not think |
in terms of the future. | |
39:00 | What happens to you |
in your relationship with another? | |
39:07 | With the other |
is equally thinking with you. | |
39:14 | You understand? |
39:15 | He also says, |
‘Yes, I see that’. | |
39:18 | So let both of us think together. |
39:21 | I drop my opinions, |
drop my prejudices, so on, | |
39:25 | so we are together thinking. |
39:28 | Do you follow? |
39:29 | Then what happens? |
39:37 | Because we have… |
39:44 | all of us want, desire, |
long for a good society | |
39:51 | where we don’t hurt each other, |
kill each other, maim each other, | |
39:55 | go to war against each other, |
39:59 | live in perpetual insecurity, |
frightened. | |
40:05 | We all want a society |
of a different kind. | |
40:15 | Some have said |
– please, listen – | |
40:18 | some have said you can have |
such a good society | |
40:22 | if you alter the circumstances, |
the environment. | |
40:28 | The Communists, the Socialists, |
all the rest of the world, | |
40:33 | says change all that through law, |
democratically if you can, | |
40:39 | if you cannot – totalitarian – |
suppress, conform, force, | |
40:45 | but change the environment. |
40:51 | They have tried it |
in ten different ways | |
40:54 | – that has never happened. |
40:56 | Man has not changed. |
41:01 | Either as a Christian human being, |
or a Hindu, | |
41:04 | he has not changed radically. |
41:10 | Why? |
41:13 | Is it an economic reason? |
41:16 | Is it a matter of belief? |
41:19 | You believe in Jesus, |
another doesn’t. | |
41:23 | Why? |
41:27 | Why has there been |
in the world | |
41:34 | thousands and thousands of years |
this constant division? | |
41:41 | The Egyptians, the Greeks, |
the Romans, the Persians, | |
41:45 | you know, the whole division |
– why? | |
41:49 | Is it because |
41:51 | no two human beings |
have ever found out | |
41:55 | how to think together? |
41:58 | You understand my point? |
42:06 | You and I can’t think together. |
42:10 | I want to. |
42:12 | The speaker says, ‘For god’s sake, |
let’s think together | |
42:16 | because we will create |
a different world altogether’. | |
42:22 | But you say, ‘Sorry, |
42:24 | I want my opinions, |
I like my opinions, | |
42:28 | I cannot let go |
my experiences, my pleasures’. | |
42:36 | So it keeps that division going. |
42:45 | Now we are saying: |
42:48 | can you put aside all your stupid, |
you know, worthless things | |
42:56 | – opinions, experiences; |
they are dead, gone, finished, | |
43:02 | and say, ‘Let’s think together’. |
43:05 | So our minds, not your mind |
is different from mine, | |
43:11 | there is only one mind |
when we are together | |
43:14 | – you understand this? – |
43:19 | then what is the relationship |
of that mind | |
43:24 | to another mind in daily life? |
43:31 | Go on, sirs. |
43:35 | Q: Is that |
a rhetorical question, sir? | |
43:39 | Because if not I would like to reply |
43:44 | but I don’t want |
to interrupt your talk. | |
43:49 | K: I can’t hear, sir |
– somebody, have you heard? | |
43:54 | Q: He says, |
is it a rhetorical question. | |
43:56 | K: No, it is not |
a rhetorical question. | |
43:59 | Q: Can you say you want to get |
an answer from the audience, | |
44:02 | not from yourself? |
44:04 | K: That is why I am waiting, sir. |
Q: I am giving you one now, sir. | |
44:07 | K: Oh, no, not one answer. |
44:09 | Q: I can only give you my answer. |
I can’t answer for anybody else? | |
44:12 | K: Ah! Then we are not |
thinking together. | |
44:18 | No, no, |
that is the whole point, sir. | |
44:21 | Please, forgive me. |
44:24 | There is no your point of view |
and my point of view. | |
44:27 | Q: I never said point of view, sir. |
44:32 | K: Your way of expressing it. |
44:35 | Q: No, sir, |
what I wanted to say was just this: | |
44:38 | you said, if there was |
no psychological time, | |
44:41 | what is your relationship |
with another? | |
44:44 | My answer to that is: |
44:46 | wait till Thursday |
and I can tell you | |
44:49 | because right now |
I cannot tell you. | |
44:51 | I have quarrelled with my wife |
for twenty years. | |
44:54 | K: So, are you saying, sir, |
that I cannot tell you about it now. | |
45:02 | I have done this |
for twenty years, | |
45:05 | I cannot tell you now |
but perhaps later on in the future? | |
45:09 | Q: On Thursday, sir. |
45:12 | In the past, I have listened to you |
45:14 | in the way |
that is not listening at all. | |
45:17 | Right now I feel maybe |
I am on your wavelength, | |
45:21 | but I need a little bit of time |
to experiment with this. | |
45:25 | I cannot give you the answer |
immediately | |
45:27 | and tell you what is |
my relationship with another | |
45:30 | when I have not had |
the opportunity to observe | |
45:33 | what is happening in daily life. |
45:36 | Sitting here... |
K: That is what I am saying, sir. | |
45:38 | Yes, sir, I have understood |
your question. | |
45:40 | I haven’t had the opportunity |
to put this question to myself, | |
45:43 | I must have time |
and then I will answer you. | |
45:46 | I say you are off. |
45:49 | I say you are then not meeting. |
45:52 | I love you. |
46:03 | And what happens to such a mind |
that says, I have no division? | |
46:10 | Now, not I will think it over, |
I will work at it – then you are... | |
46:19 | Q: It’s open. |
46:24 | K: No, you are not |
meeting my point, sir. | |
46:27 | Q: Well, you cannot possibly |
know what happens. | |
46:30 | K: Comment, madame? |
46:31 | Q: I think, |
if you are thinking together, | |
46:34 | you can’t know what happens. |
46:41 | K: Do you know what your |
relationship is with another now? | |
46:46 | Q: No. |
46:51 | K: You don’t know what your |
relationship with another is now, | |
46:54 | with your wife, your friend, |
your girl or boy, | |
46:57 | do you know what it is now? |
47:00 | Q: No. |
47:02 | K: You don’t know? |
47:06 | Q: We know but... |
47:10 | K: I am asking you. |
So you know? | |
47:12 | Q: Of course. |
47:13 | Q: I don’t know. |
47:19 | K: The lady says |
she doesn’t know. | |
47:24 | Will your boyfriend and husband |
accept that? | |
47:36 | You are playing games. |
47:44 | Let’s put the question |
differently. | |
47:50 | What shall we do together |
47:54 | to bring about |
a change in the world? | |
48:02 | We all say change is necessary. |
48:06 | We see things are degenerating, |
48:08 | you know what is happening |
in the world, | |
48:10 | terrible things are happening |
in the world. | |
48:15 | And what shall we do together |
– please, listen – to change this? | |
48:21 | Q: We have to change ourselves. |
K: No, wait, wait. | |
48:22 | I am coming to that. |
48:24 | Don’t say change ourselves. |
You have had 50 years. | |
48:29 | Q: 52. |
K: 52! | |
48:43 | You have had 52 years, |
48:45 | why in the name of heavens |
haven’t you changed? | |
48:51 | So it means you are |
accepting the future. | |
48:56 | Something will happen |
to make you change. | |
49:01 | My question then, ask, sir: |
49:03 | what shall we do together? |
– please, listen. | |
49:08 | Though you have listened |
to the speaker for 52 years | |
49:12 | or 10 years or 5 years, |
49:14 | what shall we do together |
to bring about a new society? | |
49:28 | The Catholics |
at one time in history, | |
49:31 | they were terribly united. |
49:35 | Anybody who disagreed |
49:36 | were tortured, inquisitioned, burnt. |
49:42 | But for a time they held it, |
49:45 | because they had the same belief, |
49:47 | same – |
you know, all the rest of it. | |
49:51 | Now all that is gone |
– nobody believes in anything. | |
49:58 | And we see the society as it is. |
50:02 | What shall we do together? |
50:09 | When one is put that question, |
50:11 | each one has different plans |
– right? | |
50:15 | different ideas, different concepts: |
do this, don’t do that, | |
50:19 | we must all join together |
to elect a new president, | |
50:22 | a new politician – you follow? |
50:41 | So I am asking: |
will a belief bring us together? | |
50:48 | Right? |
50:49 | Q: No. |
K: It can’t. Wait. | |
50:53 | Will authority bring us together? |
Q: No. | |
51:03 | K: I promise you a reward. |
Q: No. | |
51:09 | K: You will reach Nirvana |
if you do this. | |
51:14 | Q: No. |
51:16 | K: Or if you don’t do this, |
you will go to hell. | |
51:20 | Reward and punishment, |
on which we have lived. | |
51:27 | So what will bring us together? |
51:32 | Belief won’t, |
51:35 | authority of any kind is rejected, |
51:41 | the reward by another |
as a means for you to change | |
51:48 | is also rejected. |
51:50 | And if you say you are going to be |
punished in heaven for not obeying, | |
51:54 | you say, ‘Go away, don’t be silly’, |
and you pass him. | |
52:00 | So what will make us come together? |
52:03 | Q: Try to listen. |
52:12 | K: But you won’t listen |
if you are prejudiced. | |
52:18 | Right? |
52:20 | So will you drop your prejudice? |
52:23 | We come back to the same thing. |
52:27 | Will you drop |
your personal desire | |
52:29 | for some extraordinary evolutionary |
utopia, enlightenment? | |
52:37 | Drop your idea |
of what meditation must be? | |
52:43 | Can you let go all that? |
52:50 | And will it take another 52 years, |
52:55 | you say, ‘Yes, |
at the end of it, I am dying, | |
52:57 | but I hope I will give it up’. |
53:01 | You follow? |
53:03 | So what will bring us together? |
You put that question. | |
53:10 | Q: We have not asked, |
I don’t know why. | |
53:13 | K: Only when we are able |
to think together. | |
53:16 | Right, sir? |
53:20 | When you and I |
see the same thing. | |
53:26 | Not you see the thing differently |
and I see it differently. | |
53:31 | When both of us see something |
actually happening as it is, | |
53:38 | then we can both look at it. |
53:42 | But if you say |
that is not happening, | |
53:44 | only it is imagination, |
or it is this, that or the other | |
53:48 | – you follow what I am saying? |
53:51 | So what will make us come together? |
54:00 | I am not talking sexually, |
54:03 | in this permissive world that is |
the most silly obvious thing, | |
54:10 | and we think |
that is being together. | |
54:22 | Let’s put the question differently: |
54:30 | if there is no tomorrow |
psychologically, the future, | |
54:38 | what is my action towards another? |
54:47 | The future implies no ideals, |
and no past either. | |
54:56 | You understand this? |
54:59 | If the future you deny |
psychologically, | |
55:02 | you also must deny the past. |
55:06 | I don’t know if you follow this? |
55:12 | Gosh! |
55:18 | Will you let your past go? |
55:26 | Your hurts, the wounds |
that you have received, | |
55:33 | the unfulfilled desires, |
the anxieties | |
55:41 | – which is the past. |
55:46 | Psychologically, |
if there is no future, | |
55:51 | it implies psychologically |
there is no past. | |
55:55 | I wonder if you see this! |
55:58 | You can’t have one |
and reject the other, | |
56:03 | they are the same movement. |
56:08 | And that is our difficulty. |
56:14 | Our difficulty is to let go, |
56:18 | either the past or the future, |
56:23 | because we are frightened. |
56:29 | I won’t go into that now, |
but look at it, what we are doing. | |
56:32 | We want to change the world. |
56:35 | It is necessary |
for our grandchildren. | |
56:38 | You know, sir, if you love somebody |
56:40 | with your heart, with your blood |
with your whole being, | |
56:43 | love somebody, |
56:47 | and you have a small child |
whom you love, | |
56:51 | do you want him |
to enter into this world? | |
56:56 | So what shall we do? |
56:59 | But you are not |
interested in this. | |
57:03 | Q: But do you think it is really |
possible to do it totally? | |
57:06 | Is someone that you know |
that has done it? | |
57:11 | K: Is this possible to do it |
totally, the gentleman asks, | |
57:15 | who has heard me 52 years. |
57:18 | And do you know anybody |
who has done this. | |
57:28 | It would be impudent on my part |
– please, listen – | |
57:32 | impudent, impolite, incorrect, |
57:36 | to say I know somebody. |
57:42 | What is important is: |
are you now? | |
57:47 | Not do you know somebody. |
57:53 | That is escaping from yourself |
57:57 | when you say, |
‘Well show me somebody, a result’. | |
58:02 | The speaker is not |
interested in results. | |
58:07 | If he is, |
then he will be disappointed, | |
58:11 | he will be exploiting, he will enter |
into quite a different world. | |
58:17 | So what shall we do together? |
58:22 | You see, |
58:25 | if you understood |
that word ‘together’. | |
58:35 | You know, |
when you hold your hand with another | |
58:41 | whom you like, |
58:44 | you may be holding hands and |
each person thinking differently. | |
58:50 | Right? |
58:54 | But they are not together. |
59:00 | Together means |
having the same quality of mind. | |
59:08 | When they love each other, it is |
the same quality. You understand? | |
59:11 | To love somebody so completely |
59:14 | – oh, you don’t... |
59:18 | In that there is no future, |
is there? | |
59:20 | You don’t say, |
‘I will love you tomorrow’. | |
59:32 | So what shall we do |
59:35 | to bring about a feeling |
59:42 | that we are not separate, |
we are together, | |
59:50 | the feeling, quality, |
the feeling of it – you understand? | |
1:00:06 | It is quite phenomenal |
1:00:09 | that this gentleman |
has heard me 52 years, | |
1:00:13 | another gentleman over there |
for 20 years, | |
1:00:19 | and some of you have heard me |
for 10, 5, or for the first time | |
1:00:31 | – what will make you change? |
1:00:43 | Being hit on the head? |
1:00:51 | Offering you a reward? |
1:00:54 | What will make you change |
so that you say, ‘Look, | |
1:00:57 | it is the greatest importance |
in life to be together’? | |
1:01:23 | Q: Letting go of fear. |
1:01:26 | K: No fear. |
1:01:30 | Is that it? |
1:01:33 | Or is it – please, listen – |
1:01:35 | or is it |
1:01:40 | we think we are secure |
in our separateness? | |
1:01:51 | Q: Yes, sir. |
1:01:52 | Q: It must start... |
1:01:54 | K: Just listen, madame, |
to what I have said. | |
1:02:01 | Each one of us thinks, |
1:02:03 | because we have a particular name, |
1:02:07 | a form, a job, |
a bank account, | |
1:02:11 | belong to a particular nation, |
particular group, | |
1:02:15 | we are safe, secure. |
1:02:23 | And I say: are you secure? |
1:02:28 | Obviously you are not. |
1:02:36 | So you follow? |
1:02:37 | You want to be secure completely |
in your isolation, | |
1:02:44 | and the moment you are isolated |
you cannot be secure. | |
1:02:51 | That is what each nation is saying. |
1:02:56 | We must be secure, |
we must build up arms, | |
1:03:03 | we must protect ourselves |
against you. | |
1:03:07 | So each human being |
wants to be secure in his isolation. | |
1:03:14 | Oh, for god’s sake! |
1:03:19 | And when you are isolated, |
you can never be secure. | |
1:03:34 | Isn’t that a fact? |
Q: Yes. | |
1:03:37 | K: Therefore, if it is a fact, |
don’t be isolated. | |
1:03:45 | You see, you won’t accept the fact |
and say it is so, | |
1:03:50 | and yet you keep to the fact, |
hold on. | |
1:03:56 | It is a hopeless generation, |
is that it? | |
1:04:00 | No, sir. |
1:04:05 | So we are pointing out – |
there is complete total security | |
1:04:11 | when we are together. |
1:04:15 | You understand? |
1:04:16 | When we are thinking together. |
1:04:28 | And only out of that |
can come a good society, | |
1:04:35 | which is righteous, which is moral, |
1:04:42 | which will have peace |
– you know. | |
1:04:45 | In that there is security, |
not in what you have now. | |
1:04:57 | Basta. |
1:04:59 | We will meet the day after tomorrow, |
I believe, don’t we? | |